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	<title>Comments on: Working While Asian/Asian-American</title>
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		<title>By: Erik</title>
		<link>http://www.8asians.com/2007/04/14/working-while-asianasian-american/comment-page-1/#comment-12299</link>
		<dc:creator>Erik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2007 00:21:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting.  Let&#039;s all wear stilettos to work!  Cmon.  Let&#039;s not let that be an excuse.  How would Napoleon feel!  Akrypti, I have disagree with one comment.  As an Asian man married to a white woman I find it a bit insulting to say that I have better confidence and a bigger ego because my wife is white.  I am proud of my spouse and if they were proud of me and their own life, then that is what boosts my ego.  The fact that being married to me made them a better person.  Let&#039;s say I was married to Kristi Yamaguchi or Lucy Lu.  Heck yes I&#039;d have a big ego!  I bet Yo-Yo Ma was confident before he got married to a white woman.

It&#039;s all about attitude and confidence!  I&#039;m sure that being shorter has more to do with a person&#039;s own perception of themself and that is how it translates outward.  And don&#039;t blame it all on Hollywood....right Tom Cruise?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting.  Let&#8217;s all wear stilettos to work!  Cmon.  Let&#8217;s not let that be an excuse.  How would Napoleon feel!  Akrypti, I have disagree with one comment.  As an Asian man married to a white woman I find it a bit insulting to say that I have better confidence and a bigger ego because my wife is white.  I am proud of my spouse and if they were proud of me and their own life, then that is what boosts my ego.  The fact that being married to me made them a better person.  Let&#8217;s say I was married to Kristi Yamaguchi or Lucy Lu.  Heck yes I&#8217;d have a big ego!  I bet Yo-Yo Ma was confident before he got married to a white woman.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s all about attitude and confidence!  I&#8217;m sure that being shorter has more to do with a person&#8217;s own perception of themself and that is how it translates outward.  And don&#8217;t blame it all on Hollywood&#8230;.right Tom Cruise?</p>
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		<title>By: Erik</title>
		<link>http://www.8asians.com/2007/04/14/working-while-asianasian-american/comment-page-1/#comment-135246</link>
		<dc:creator>Erik</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 May 2007 00:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting.  Let&#039;s all wear stilettos to work!  Cmon.  Let&#039;s not let that be an excuse.  How would Napoleon feel!  Akrypti, I have disagree with one comment.  As an Asian man married to a white woman I find it a bit insulting to say that I have better confidence and a bigger ego because my wife is white.  I am proud of my spouse and if they were proud of me and their own life, then that is what boosts my ego.  The fact that being married to me made them a better person.  Let&#039;s say I was married to Kristi Yamaguchi or Lucy Lu.  Heck yes I&#039;d have a big ego!  I bet Yo-Yo Ma was confident before he got married to a white woman.

It&#039;s all about attitude and confidence!  I&#039;m sure that being shorter has more to do with a person&#039;s own perception of themself and that is how it translates outward.  And don&#039;t blame it all on Hollywood....right Tom Cruise?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting.  Let&#8217;s all wear stilettos to work!  Cmon.  Let&#8217;s not let that be an excuse.  How would Napoleon feel!  Akrypti, I have disagree with one comment.  As an Asian man married to a white woman I find it a bit insulting to say that I have better confidence and a bigger ego because my wife is white.  I am proud of my spouse and if they were proud of me and their own life, then that is what boosts my ego.  The fact that being married to me made them a better person.  Let&#8217;s say I was married to Kristi Yamaguchi or Lucy Lu.  Heck yes I&#8217;d have a big ego!  I bet Yo-Yo Ma was confident before he got married to a white woman.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s all about attitude and confidence!  I&#8217;m sure that being shorter has more to do with a person&#8217;s own perception of themself and that is how it translates outward.  And don&#8217;t blame it all on Hollywood&#8230;.right Tom Cruise?</p>
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		<title>By: 8 Asians &#187; CNN: American Morning: An Asian glass ceiling?</title>
		<link>http://www.8asians.com/2007/04/14/working-while-asianasian-american/comment-page-1/#comment-10748</link>
		<dc:creator>8 Asians &#187; CNN: American Morning: An Asian glass ceiling?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2007 06:07:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Today, in the on-going American Morning series, Yul Kwon covers the topic of &#8220;An Asian glass ceiling? (video)&#8221; As I&#8217;ve written in a previous post, &#8220;Working While Asian/Asian-American,&#8221; Kwon covers the topic of Asian-American stereotypes in the workplace. Challenging authority, self promotion and taking risks are some of the attributes that are valued in Corporate America that clash with classic &#8220;Asian values&#8221; of respecting authority, being modest, etc. as brought up in the segment (i.e. The nail that sticks up, gets hammered down.&#8221; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Today, in the on-going American Morning series, Yul Kwon covers the topic of &#8220;An Asian glass ceiling? (video)&#8221; As I&#8217;ve written in a previous post, &#8220;Working While Asian/Asian-American,&#8221; Kwon covers the topic of Asian-American stereotypes in the workplace. Challenging authority, self promotion and taking risks are some of the attributes that are valued in Corporate America that clash with classic &#8220;Asian values&#8221; of respecting authority, being modest, etc. as brought up in the segment (i.e. The nail that sticks up, gets hammered down.&#8221; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Akrypti</title>
		<link>http://www.8asians.com/2007/04/14/working-while-asianasian-american/comment-page-1/#comment-6846</link>
		<dc:creator>Akrypti</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Apr 2007 22:20:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder how we can reconcile this condition with the finding that megalomaniacs tend to be extremely short...

Anyway, one exception to this rule is when the Asian male is married to a white female. I noticed that in these instances, the Asian male&#039;s confidence and ego is boosted, and they&#039;re much more likely to be assertive, hold their chins up a little higher, and thus be recognized as potential corporate management material.

Finally, my father is 6&#039;2&quot; and I don&#039;t think his height has ever had a factor at all in his professional career. It&#039;s because he tends to be more passive, quiet, and you know the whole model minority yada yada thing. The passivity and, more accurately, the long-held perception and stereotype of Asian males as passive, is definitely a big factor in this equation.

On the whole, though, I completely agree with you. Nothing hurts the chances of promotion more than the fact we&#039;re short and look pubescent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder how we can reconcile this condition with the finding that megalomaniacs tend to be extremely short&#8230;</p>
<p>Anyway, one exception to this rule is when the Asian male is married to a white female. I noticed that in these instances, the Asian male&#8217;s confidence and ego is boosted, and they&#8217;re much more likely to be assertive, hold their chins up a little higher, and thus be recognized as potential corporate management material.</p>
<p>Finally, my father is 6&#8217;2&#8243; and I don&#8217;t think his height has ever had a factor at all in his professional career. It&#8217;s because he tends to be more passive, quiet, and you know the whole model minority yada yada thing. The passivity and, more accurately, the long-held perception and stereotype of Asian males as passive, is definitely a big factor in this equation.</p>
<p>On the whole, though, I completely agree with you. Nothing hurts the chances of promotion more than the fact we&#8217;re short and look pubescent.</p>
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		<title>By: Akrypti</title>
		<link>http://www.8asians.com/2007/04/14/working-while-asianasian-american/comment-page-1/#comment-135245</link>
		<dc:creator>Akrypti</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Apr 2007 22:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder how we can reconcile this condition with the finding that megalomaniacs tend to be extremely short...

Anyway, one exception to this rule is when the Asian male is married to a white female. I noticed that in these instances, the Asian male&#039;s confidence and ego is boosted, and they&#039;re much more likely to be assertive, hold their chins up a little higher, and thus be recognized as potential corporate management material.

Finally, my father is 6&#039;2&quot; and I don&#039;t think his height has ever had a factor at all in his professional career. It&#039;s because he tends to be more passive, quiet, and you know the whole model minority yada yada thing. The passivity and, more accurately, the long-held perception and stereotype of Asian males as passive, is definitely a big factor in this equation.

On the whole, though, I completely agree with you. Nothing hurts the chances of promotion more than the fact we&#039;re short and look pubescent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder how we can reconcile this condition with the finding that megalomaniacs tend to be extremely short&#8230;</p>
<p>Anyway, one exception to this rule is when the Asian male is married to a white female. I noticed that in these instances, the Asian male&#8217;s confidence and ego is boosted, and they&#8217;re much more likely to be assertive, hold their chins up a little higher, and thus be recognized as potential corporate management material.</p>
<p>Finally, my father is 6&#8217;2&#8243; and I don&#8217;t think his height has ever had a factor at all in his professional career. It&#8217;s because he tends to be more passive, quiet, and you know the whole model minority yada yada thing. The passivity and, more accurately, the long-held perception and stereotype of Asian males as passive, is definitely a big factor in this equation.</p>
<p>On the whole, though, I completely agree with you. Nothing hurts the chances of promotion more than the fact we&#8217;re short and look pubescent.</p>
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		<title>By: Xxxtine</title>
		<link>http://www.8asians.com/2007/04/14/working-while-asianasian-american/comment-page-1/#comment-6653</link>
		<dc:creator>Xxxtine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2007 22:28:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I went out with a guy, who I deemed to be tall and quite handsome.  He at one time worked in the financial district and lamented that even at his height, which I think was 5&#039;10-ish, he would still not be able to make VP.  And it certainly wasn&#039;t because of his abilities, but it was because he didn&#039;t &#039;look&#039; the part.

For me, my very first article ever written was tackling this particular subject. An employer hired me because I was Asian ... and therefore was efficient, hard working etc etc ... but because I hadn&#039;t been working for 2 years, I was ... rusty ... to say the least and let go 3 days later.

Also, I work in an industry (media/entertainment) where people talk, talk, and talk without really saying anything, so that bit is not surprising.  It is however, how far these people get when whatever comes out of their mouth is utter nonsense.

And soon approaching the age of 30, I got mistaken for 19 at a press conference recently.  I just can&#039;t be bothered wearing heels when I&#039;m in a rush.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went out with a guy, who I deemed to be tall and quite handsome.  He at one time worked in the financial district and lamented that even at his height, which I think was 5&#8217;10-ish, he would still not be able to make VP.  And it certainly wasn&#8217;t because of his abilities, but it was because he didn&#8217;t &#8216;look&#8217; the part.</p>
<p>For me, my very first article ever written was tackling this particular subject. An employer hired me because I was Asian &#8230; and therefore was efficient, hard working etc etc &#8230; but because I hadn&#8217;t been working for 2 years, I was &#8230; rusty &#8230; to say the least and let go 3 days later.</p>
<p>Also, I work in an industry (media/entertainment) where people talk, talk, and talk without really saying anything, so that bit is not surprising.  It is however, how far these people get when whatever comes out of their mouth is utter nonsense.</p>
<p>And soon approaching the age of 30, I got mistaken for 19 at a press conference recently.  I just can&#8217;t be bothered wearing heels when I&#8217;m in a rush.</p>
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		<title>By: Xxxtine</title>
		<link>http://www.8asians.com/2007/04/14/working-while-asianasian-american/comment-page-1/#comment-135244</link>
		<dc:creator>Xxxtine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Apr 2007 22:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I went out with a guy, who I deemed to be tall and quite handsome.  He at one time worked in the financial district and lamented that even at his height, which I think was 5&#039;10-ish, he would still not be able to make VP.  And it certainly wasn&#039;t because of his abilities, but it was because he didn&#039;t &#039;look&#039; the part.

For me, my very first article ever written was tackling this particular subject. An employer hired me because I was Asian ... and therefore was efficient, hard working etc etc ... but because I hadn&#039;t been working for 2 years, I was ... rusty ... to say the least and let go 3 days later.

Also, I work in an industry (media/entertainment) where people talk, talk, and talk without really saying anything, so that bit is not surprising.  It is however, how far these people get when whatever comes out of their mouth is utter nonsense.

And soon approaching the age of 30, I got mistaken for 19 at a press conference recently.  I just can&#039;t be bothered wearing heels when I&#039;m in a rush.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went out with a guy, who I deemed to be tall and quite handsome.  He at one time worked in the financial district and lamented that even at his height, which I think was 5&#8217;10-ish, he would still not be able to make VP.  And it certainly wasn&#8217;t because of his abilities, but it was because he didn&#8217;t &#8216;look&#8217; the part.</p>
<p>For me, my very first article ever written was tackling this particular subject. An employer hired me because I was Asian &#8230; and therefore was efficient, hard working etc etc &#8230; but because I hadn&#8217;t been working for 2 years, I was &#8230; rusty &#8230; to say the least and let go 3 days later.</p>
<p>Also, I work in an industry (media/entertainment) where people talk, talk, and talk without really saying anything, so that bit is not surprising.  It is however, how far these people get when whatever comes out of their mouth is utter nonsense.</p>
<p>And soon approaching the age of 30, I got mistaken for 19 at a press conference recently.  I just can&#8217;t be bothered wearing heels when I&#8217;m in a rush.</p>
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