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Why Asian Girls Go For White Guys

By Mike | Friday, August 10, 2007 | 221 Comments

So, the age-old question: Why do Asian girls go for white guys?

A friend (who happens to be Caucasian guy and married to an Asian American girl) asked if there really are more interracial couples than intra-racial couples out there. “Asian guys complain about all this interracial dating, but is it really all that common? Or are they just noticing the few interracial couples out there and making a big thing out of it?”

Hmm. So I did an informal poll amongst my friends and found that 27% of them are in interracial relationships, within all of which the girls are Asian American. They all happen to be in the San Francisco Bay Area too.

(BTW, his is a highly unscientific poll and really doesn’t mean squat, except to show that 27% of my friends are in interracial relationships. Do a poll amongst your friends. See what you get.)

(Also check out Why Asian Girls Go For White Guys: A Response and Why Asian Guys Can’t Get White Girls for more juicy coverage.)

So why do you think Asian girls go for white guys?

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kevinucsd
kevinucsd 5 pts

I'm a Chinese Canadian and I have only dated White girls four of them in total, one in high school, three at UC San Diego (yes many of this combo here...Yellow Fever :)). When I was in high school I was attracted to Asian women and then slowly as I grew up I witnessed more and more interracial relationships between white men and asian women. having lived in NorCal for years and Hong Kong for several years I realised that this combination is very fascinating...sadly to say but because of this, i now am only attracted to White women...and yes I only date hot ones hands down. haha. Anyway...

I suspect much of this has to do with the historical colonialism --> orientalism and the white men domination over the Asian cultures. I have seen some really young Asian ladies with old White men...and sometimes the ladies can't even speak English well enough to communicate. I mean...is this a social ladder? Of course there are very few ones out there that are truly in love. But my main attempt is: it is either a social ladder, to get into the "higher" class society, money, or a combination of these.

My friend who happens to be Korean American has only dated White men and she dated one of my close friends here in Uni and when one of her friends visited her she mentioned something similar to oh i'm done with white guys, i'm going to go for asians. It sounded as if they dated White men because of reasons other than...love.

But no I'm not sad or anything about this topic...I'm happy. Less Asian women and White men in the way...White girls here I come!

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lfuser1
lfuser1 6 pts

If you are interested in WMAF, this link is the grand collection on this topic:http://fafast.com/play?white+guys+asian+girls

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vlefthook
vlefthook 5 pts

Seriously, who the fuck cares what asian women do? They're fucking boring as hell. I've never been excited or passionate when I've been with an asian woman. They also tend to be bat shit crazy and just utterly unremarkable. To asian brothers, date the fuck out. Find a white girl, a latina girl, a black girl anyone but asian and DATE OUT. They're not worth even giving two shits and a fuck over. If they want to date white guys and find themselves decapitated and put into a concrete wall or have their children be molested, then I say fine, let them. LOL, seriously, they are not worth a struggle.

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DillonPaule
DillonPaule 6 pts

Ugh...asian women are the worst...it's funny how white dudes think they're the best.

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Wonwill
Wonwill 5 pts

My chinese girlfriend had always dated chinese guys and never even thought about dating a foreigner or non-chinese guy before we started dating. And I certainly didn't go to france with the intention of finding a chinese girl. Just two exchange students, in france of all places, who were able to meet and connect due to a random bundle of circumstances. It just happened, pretty simple and uncomplicated.

I could, however, tell characteristics that she likes about me that none of her other boyfriends had, but I think that's of little importance seeing as she had been in france for a whole year before me and was never attracted to any other white guys, with or without those characteristics.

I guess I just got lucky that she enjoyed my goofiness as much as I enjoyed being goofy.

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Ed
Ed 37 pts

Wonwill Wow!! In 4 years since this post was originally published, your comment is the only one by either a white male or an asian female that didn't project any white superiority complex or asian self-hate. Well done and good luck to both of you.

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jussayin
jussayin 5 pts

I'm a korean girl dating a white guy. In my experience a lot of the asian guys ive met have either been church goers, "gangster", nerds, momma's boys, or mildly sexist. definitely not saying that all asians are like this, but it certainly narrows the scope when choosing a mate. for fun i usually go out to "indie" shows, and i really cannot tell you the last time i saw an asian guy; my lifestyle tends to attract the white or latino guys (im from la), so my dating history is composed of those ethnicities. really, not all asian girls are superficial and money grubbing!!! i just play my cards in a game where im attracted to those who have similar interests and asian guys generally do not fit that equation. for physical attraction, to be completely honest, i prefer a really tall guy with facial hair= not an easy thing to pull of if you're asian. also, i think it is exciting to date those outside of your race. i can relate to a korean guy about family values and traditions and talk for hours, but in the end im much more interested in someone who is culturally different from me.

still, it is silly to think that there is no one left for asian men. think about how big korean pop music or korean dramas are. i dont listen to/watch the stuff but i know soooo many asian and non-asian girls who go crazy over the guys. dont take out your anger on the fact that youre single on other interracial couples. dont play up the stereotype where asian guys are either too meek or too chauvinistic: chill out and be the best version of you you can be! be content that you are good at math and art (and every subject really :P), because what speaks to girls is honest confidence and charisma. we lap that shit up!

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Ed
Ed 37 pts

jussayin

Hmmmm.. Where do I begin? .....Let me first ask why asian women on the internet find it necessary to regurgitate every stereotypical, archetype, generalization of asian men that exists in western society, frame it with “in my experience…” or “in my opinion…” and still expect it not to be racist and discriminatory?

The fact your from LA only reinforces your racist bias. You honestly can’t expect people to believe there are no Asian guys in that part of the country that fit your “type”, unless that type is a strong Caucasoid preference, which you should have said in the first place instead of adding all of this extraneous crap about personality and intelligence. I suspect the Latino guys you like look closer to Enrique Iglesias then George Lopez.

Asians are not a single monolithic culture. There are huge difference between South Asian, South East Asian and North East Asian cultures and even in an between countries in these regions. But this is a moot point isn’t it? As there are only certain cultures, from certain parts of the world that you are interested.

In short, your message essentially amounts to “I think Asian guys are ok, but White guys are better. Asian guys hang in there”. Hahahaha!

Your views, beliefs, actions, your very existence contributes to the white male hegemony. I like your attempt at delivering advice (laughable really) by repeating the canned, “girls dig confidence” argument, when in fact you still wouldn’t be interested in tall, indie guitar playing, confident, Asian guy with a goatee because ultimately he doesn’t look white. Nothing you’ve said is really of any benefit to Asian males. Word of advice, please do not try to help Asian men out again.

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AboutTime
AboutTime 5 pts

jussayin

I think it would be a lot easier if you just admit that you are heavily influenced by white media and you believe white standard of the beauty should be the way to go. Let's face it, in many cases it is all about the race when it comes to WM/AF couples. With a city full of other minorities, AFs just happened to be dealing WMs like 99% of the time when it comes to interracial relationships. You honestly gonna try to tell me that's just coincidence? I think it would be a lot more believable if you just come out and say you just like white guys better because well, they look white.

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asianman
asianman 5 pts

jussayin so simple, you Asian girls wanna be white. I m so sick of my own people going for another people. I don't complain if a few, but at least 90% of them are dating white.

Think about if your mother. you kids are living with other people and give you nasty look. How will you feel about it?

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DillonPaule
DillonPaule 6 pts

jussayin Yawn, asian guys get girls...in fact, last night i was in safeway and it was the short asian guys with the hot girls and the white dudes with the ugly girls. The hot girls were not asian by the way:)

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ddiddorai@hotmail.com
ddiddorai@hotmail.com 5 pts

based on many of my asian femail friends who are dating or have dated a white guy, i think, many of my friends find white guys physically more attractive (usually bigger than asian guys). Also, they think asian guys are still very conservative and what they expect from girls are still kind of old fashion. Oh I also very much agree with what Jobscho below mentioned on a sexual part too. Asian guys are still believed to be very much into super skinny girls, and pale asian women, which makes asian women feel more loved by other races just the way they are.

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Bule gila
Bule gila 5 pts

I don't think that this is true at all. I am white, my wife is Asian. My wife said when we were first dating that she did not like white men, but did have a preference to tall, large men. I have been speaking with some of my wifes sisters and cousins, not one of them said they " prefer" white men, but were curious to see if we were different "down there". As for white males preferring Asian women? Apart from Asians being more attractive, better mothers, great cooks, good house keepers, faithful, honest and more down to earth I have no idea. I think Asian culture has Superior family values compared to western culture ( in my experience anyway) and because of this Asian girls make better wives, better mothers for your kids. I would never date a western girl ever again if I were single.

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asianman
asianman 5 pts

Most asian girls i know who dating white guys think they are white. That is pretty pathetic. Another one is most asian girls claims that they like white guy because of true love. LMFAO. To me they are stupid and dumb which mean not SMART.

If I am a asian girl, I will only date asian guy. I will be look the same and no different, either I date asian guy or white guy. If i date Asian guy, I will have more pride for my own. I won't lose my own race which is great. My generation will be purely Asian which I should proud of. Also other race will respect me. If i date White guy, I will get the same love that asian guy give me. but I will have a small society because I can't go to white society all the time with these Asian face. I can't be or hang out with my own Asian people mostly. It is not good for both side. I believe White guy will feel the same way too. So, why don't we just keep the environment healthy?

let say if you are white couple or asian couple, you can go anywhere you want. People will never complain about your relationship. How beautiful is that? right?

There is one reason good for white guy is asian men don't kill white guy because WG dating AF. We Asian are not like White, example, WM will kill Black men because BLACK men stealing White Women. (KKK)? So, now you know WHO IS MORE DIRTY.

There are so many reason why asian girl and white man are together.

This topic is really big, because a lot of people concern about it, not only asian men.

anyway, My English is not so good. you might wanna complain me. Don't be rule. I have my own language. I can speak your language and my own language. So, I am smart right?

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asiangal
asiangal 5 pts

I'm an asian american girl, chinese and thai mix. I've been dating a british white guy close to a year now. We're both 24. We get all sorts of looks when we go out together but we don't give a **** because we're happy. Whats the big deal with skin colour? We're both attractive and have no problems getting dates with people of our own race (and outside as well). To me, race doesn't matter... It's funny how some people just assume things for instance..."you must have incredible sex (because he's white and your asian and bla bla bla", "you like white guys huh?".... I love him period. That is all I will say and oh...the sex is amazing because we make sure it is ;)

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DillonPaule
DillonPaule 6 pts

asiangal are you sure you get looks, or is that your ego giving you hallucinations?

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jodscho
jodscho 5 pts

You know there is an obvious reason asian american woman date white guys. There are simply more white guys to choose from so even if they are interested in dating Asian guys, finding one they are attracted to is harder. Let's face it just because you are an Asian guy doesn't automatically mean every Asian woman is going to be attracted to you. The same goes for us white guys. Just because we see a white girl doesn't mean I can attract her. No matter what your mother told you, you are not that special, none of us are.

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Ed
Ed 37 pts

jodscho I do like the outlook presented in your argument, however, unfortunately it isn't that simple. Asians have the highest rates of out-marriages then any other visible minority and gender wise asian women are the highest in North America. If it were true that it's just because there are more "white guys" around, then Black, Indian, Latin etc women would statistically have interracial marriages at around the similar rate of 50% but it's not even close to that for these groups. Couple that with the obvious sexualization of asian females and parallel de-sexualization of asian males in media, the prevalent depiction of asian female and white male relationships despite there being much more (at least at one time) asian female and asian male relationships and the obvious but "afraid to admit" ubiquitous racial hierarchy of which white people and/or those with caucasian features are considered at the top, then you have what we have in North America. A sad state for asians and racial minorities in general where individuals from these groups subconsciously attach their own inferiority complexes to who they find attractive in mate.

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Bunni
Bunni 40 pts

Ugh, THIS shit AGAIN.

I date a Russian guy and HE was the one who found me. I tried really hard to blow him off many many MANY times, but he was so damn persistent! I really thought he was going to be a typical Asiaphile, but he wasn't AT ALL! In fact, he's more of a mash-up of Tim Wise, Andrew Zimmern, and Anthony Bourdain.

I have tried dating Asian guys. They're very intimidated by me, since I am a pretty militant feminist and extremely opinionated. Also, I'm hapa (Pilipino/Spanish/Italian) so I'm not really stick thin and I'm tan...I'm kinda built like Snooki (short and kinda chunky) and most Asian guys expect their women to be coke-whore skinny. Not gonna happen with me, bub.

So, bitter Asian males......if you guys could GROW a couple, be more confident, and not impose unrealistic expectations on us, then maybe, JUST maybe, we'll give you a chance.

Oh, and I hear you guys snarking on us APA girls calling us "batshit crazy". You know, mental illness in our community is a real issue, and frankly, YOU'RE NOT HELPING. FUCK YOU.

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Ed
Ed 37 pts

Bunni I think your handle says it all "Crzy". Every post on here from a white guy or an asian girl blasts asian guys. And you are no different. I like how your argument is based on racist generalizations and stereotypes often perpetuated by surprise, surprise white guys and asian girls. There's a reason why the rate of mental illness and STD are not so coincidentally highest among Asian Females. You figure it out. My issue isn't necessarily with AF/WM because despite what is forced down the throat of North Americans through media, there are actually lots of AM/WF couples. My issue is that every where I turn Asian Females will take a White guy over and Asian guy and Asian guys will take a White girl over an Asian girl. All of these preferences are based on racial bias and racist influences. Most asian guys I know, and there are lots, are either dating or married to white girls.

Too many asian people nowadays will not date other asians. The Asian community is in a sad state, partially because they're unaware of their own racial biases.

As for you as an individual, just maybe giving "bitter asian males" a chance? Don't make me laugh. I'm pretty sure they're happy with you not doing them any favors.

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GoGo
GoGo 64 pts

Ed Bunni You made a really good point there Ed - everyone always talks about the AF-WM thing, but no one really points out that the inverse is also true - many MANY asian males prefer dating white females over asian females. (i think i remember an article on 8asians in fact which was titled something like "why do hot asian guys prefer white girls")

of course, asians out-group dating has a number of reasons, i'm sure many of them involving real love/like/common interests blah blah blah, but definitely at the other end of the spectrum, there are many who do it out of racial bias, culturally biased beauty standards, and internalized racism. i really just wonder why it is that the asian american community is so disproportionately affected by this.

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DillonPaule
DillonPaule 6 pts

Bunni uh...I don't think they even want you to give them a chance...=/

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jodscho
jodscho 5 pts

I'm a white guy dating an asian girl from Hong Kong, She has told me that most Chinese guys are too serious and boring. Plus she likes the ruggedness of North American men. What can I say. We have fun together and for me race is never apart of it. Although when we first started dating I noticed I got a lot of looks from both Asian men and women. It was different though, with the men it felt like what the hell is she doing with him, but for the women it felt more like a curiousity, hmmm, I wonder what that's like.

I think white men are more open minded when it comes to sex and asian women appreciate that. An Asian man (for the most part) can't stand the idea of their woman having sex before they met. Honestly I wouldn't want to marry a virgin, I'd prefer she had an opportunity to discover herself a little more.

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WG
WG 6 pts

jodscho I agree with most of what you've said, but the fact is that ruggedness you claim is not only confined to White Americans, It does however come with growing up in a western country more often than not were the expierences you have growing up In US, Australia, Canada, Germany etc are very different to elsewhere. My past history couldnt be more rugged, I wont go into details there. But what i think it is, with Asian girls new to the country is a slight inferiority complex to the white male. There mindset is a little backward and doesnt tend to happen when the girl has been living abroad for a few years, and understands that no matter what your background, your life and mindset really is no different.

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GoGo
GoGo 64 pts

jodscho an asian man and an asian american man are two very different creatures. i can't really speak to the mentality of an asian man raised in asia, but growing up an asian american and in an asian american community, your statement that white men are more open-minded and that asian men want pure virgins - please. asian AMERICAN males for the most part, are socialized in america and therefore they are pretty similar in sexual attitudes and norms with white american males. please get rid of the notion that you, as a more "open minded" white male, are somehow liberating us asian females from our sexually oppressive asian husbands and fathers.

i've lived in hong kong for awhile as well, where it is very very popular for hong kong chinese girls to date white men. i found that this was more often than not, a status thing. it's like dating the guy with the nice fancy car, or the guy with the six figure income. hong kong still very much under a colonial mentality - that is, whatever is western aka white, is better. that's why there is such a push to learn English, that's why the vast majority of Hong Kongers want to live abroad (specifically, London), and that's why dating a white man is especially appealing.

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Fia
Fia 18 pts

WG There are a lot of white-skinned Asian people. Does that mean most white girls don't like Asian guys either?

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Fia I have had and have alot friends (girls) who would never date an East Asian, the reason why they wouldn't are completly different to why they dont like white guys. I have lived my whole life in Sydney and London and verrrrrrrrry rarely do I ever see an Asian guy with a white girl or Latina. But you always see Asian girls dating white guys. Personally I think Most, not all, asian girls have awful taste in guys. An exception I have found though is with Japanese girls, usually the more tanned ones.

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WG
WG 6 pts

Fia The more 'tanned' Japanese girls regardless of the guys skin colour will see him for being handsome or not at first impression. Other asian girls I have noticed will completly give a cold shoulder to anyone with colour on them and end up hooking up with a white guy (any white guy) Overweight, sleezy, bald, old enough to be their dad etc.

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Boogerhead
Boogerhead 24 pts

Chinese men and women are not complaining about Asian women dating white men out of sour grapes. White women don't like seeing it either and definitely not out of sour grapes. What all three of us are seeing along with the rest of third party observers of all races is blatant exploitation of social economic inequities wrapped in a cloak of unbelievable smugness - look everyone, I'm not a racist. No, but you are too casual for your own good. If they didn't date each other, a lot of these white guys and asian females wouldn't be dating at all because white girls and asian males feel entitled to say no. It's always the white guys who claim white women aren't feminine or attractive enough or age well. It's always the asian females who claim that asian males aren't macho enough. And yet white women and asian males still continue to get married and live private lives. I think there is a reason that white males and asian females are disliked. It used to be a case by case basis and a matter of not minding other people's business but the cause of its newsworthiness when it is Asian females and White guys should be investigated and not by investigating the outside parties like Asian males.

As much as I like Stephen Colbert and Jon Stewart, my heart belongs to Roland Soong.

Don't block my view, Jeremy Goldkorn:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNyxFnaDw58

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Boogerhead
Boogerhead 24 pts

Chinese American guys who are worth marrying tend to be precise in their targetting and usually will zero in on who they want, who they think is exactly right and sometimes these girls are Chinese Americans but not always BUT these Chinese American guys do not date as casually as American television would have us believe is normal for white Americans. There is no shame in not having a date on a Friday or Saturday for Chinese Americans and a Chinese guy who was known on the Asian party circuit or xanga or asian avenue the precursors to facebook as always changing partners would have a deserved reputation as TOXIC.

So, I disagree with the suggestion that Chinese guys should date "more" - should they eat when they're not hungry? I don't think so.

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man
man 5 pts

What I find disturbing about this blog is that most of the replies I have read seem to put Asian girls down... and if a girl adds a comment then some of you directly attack her. It's sad.

Now I completely understand why this situation exists and why this blog was created... why would girls want to be put down? Anyway, I'm leaving this blog as I feel it seems to be attracting a strange and immature group of people whose views are fabricated by the media.

My advice - shut your computers off and GET OUT AND ASK THE GIRLS!!!

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AboutTime
AboutTime 5 pts

The only solution for Asian guy is they need to date out more. I am not expert but at least I asked out plenty of non Asian women during my dating days. I have not dated a ton of non Asian females but I have dated over 25. I can tell you most of these girls are very surprised when I asked them out cause I am usually the 1st Asian guy that ever asked them out. Pretty sad really. Most of these girls told me they would go out with an Asian guy if they are attracted but they never get asked out by Asian guys.

Well Asian guys, all of you need to stop defining yourselves by acceptance by Asian women. It is obvious to me most of them could careless about dating within their own race. They seem to be only interested dating white men which is pretty pathetic in itself since it is racist.

I will give a dirty little secret most Asian guys don't know. There are a ton of black and Latino girls who like Asian guys but Asian men don't ever approach them. If you guys ever take a chance, you will see what I mean.

I also have traveled quite a bit during my life. I can assure you Angelo Saxon dominated culture like America, UK and Australia Asian men are at huge disadvantage cause white guys in these cultures go out of their way to bash Asian men in the media white trying to hyper sexualize Asian women. In South America for example, there are WAY WAY more Asian men dating interacially than here. It is not uncommon to see way more Asian men dating Brazilian girls than the other way around. Culture matters. America is a great place to make money, but it is a HORRIBLE place for Asian men socially. I think most Asian American men have been affected emotionally since young age due to relentless negative stereotypes from the media. You guys know what I am talking about with shits like nerd, geek, small penis etc. etc. Funny thing is I never got any complaints about my dick. A few white girls told me smallest dick they ever seen was on white men. It is another dirty little secret white men won't broadcast.

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Boogerhead
Boogerhead 24 pts

Because it's easy. White guys have no emotional leverage with me and there are no racial injustices like with other minorities that make you mind your manners and socially, their openness make them easy to take on and easy to discard. I am not a fan of Asian female/White male relationships because without genuine barriers, it's not Romeo and Juliet jumping through hoops to be together. Apologies to the true love relationships, but I'm not automatically respectful of AFWM couplings. I'd like to return to my early childhood indifference to them the way I was before I learned about racism. I think John Lennon did a lot to damage the image of AFWM pairings. He just came off as so stupid.

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Ed
Ed 37 pts

Boogerhead Here's a bit of odd, coincidental trivia for you. John Lennon's killer Mark Chapman was/is also married to an Asian women. Japanese-American Gloria Chapman. She is still technically married to him and sees him once a year for a single conjugal visit. That's dedication, though I suspect part of it would be the fact most men (asian, white or otherwise) wouldn't touch her with a 10 ft pole after finding out who she is.

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man
man 5 pts

I have had several asian girlfriends (I am white and very good-looking) and I have had many white and latin girlfriends. I asked my asian girlfriends why they find white guys attractive and they say that they like the passion of a real man. You hardly ever see a white woman with an asian man because asian men are sometimes feminine... it's NOT attractive to most women. Men need to be men... to love and protect - to take care of women... Most of the girls also say that size matters ;-)

(and Asian guys are famous for being small and bad lovers.... )

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man Oh boy looks like pollution is problem on forums as well. And just for reference those asian girlfriends you're referring to were lady boys and pre-op transgenders so your opinion is invalid here. Not to worry there are other sites you can visit. Hahahaha!!

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Ed @ Haha... seems like I hit a raw nerve with what I said. Ok... I better explain and not give an immature answer like yours...
Ok, first...this summary is not mine... they are words from all my friends (girls) who say some of them don't feel attracted to Asian guys. The girls tell me that some of the guys have very different values to them... People are amazing... driven by emotions... and most people are curious about other people and races. From what I have read on this forum I have come to a conclusion that some Asian men feel threatened by Western guys. I assume the media stereotyping has not helped this... but it also reflects on what women like... what they find attractive... maybe traditional cultural values are overlooked by some Asian girls who follow their emotions... want to experience a new and possibly more free way of life without traditional boundaries or cultural influences. I also have a lot of Asian male friends who love to date western women u00e2u0080u0093 it does go both waysu00e2u0080u00a6 but I agree the majority is Asian girl u00e2u0080u0093 Western guy.

ED u00e2u0080u0093 I believe every opinion is valid... only listening to people that you agree with may not be the best way to understand this situation?

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man Ohh man, man!! Did you ever hit a nerve, my funny bone!! Like I alluded to and you obviously didn't get is your opinion is invalid here. I could put on a white cloak and white pointy hat and sneak into one of your "gatherings" and get a vastly different opinion of Asians then I would from my group of friends. What you lack is perspective. You have a classic case of narcissistic personality disorder (you can get treated for it as well) in which you frame the world as you want it to be. Your opinion of a few girls, who were for the most part feeding your bloated ego in the first place, is biased. Do you really expect them to say "I'm not really attracted to white guys, I like asian guys better" to your face while they're going out with you? Really? I've had a ton of white girls tell me that they don't like white guys, while they're with me. Do you honestly think I have the empirical data based on experience to believe the rest of the world feels the same way?

You lost your credibility when you said you have a lot of Asian male friend. Yah Right!! Hahaha!!

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Ed man Your immature reply sums you up. I never said ALL girls think like this. Anyway... Perspective.... hahahaha!!! I have lived in Asia for 5 years... I speak Arabic, Madarin and Cantonese... I probably have more Asian friends than you do! Haha... your reply made me laugh so much... please keep going... I think this blog will enjoy watching you try to put more silly sentences together... Try to enjoy life!

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man I got one word for you douchebag. If size matter, all the Asian chicks would be going for black guys if the stereotype holds true. Why the hell would they settle for a douchebag like you?

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man Fairly predictable. I was wondering when the internet credentials were going to start flying around. So yes, we all believe you have a masters from Harvard and doctorate from MIT. You're probably a cunning linguist to the multitude of lady boys you've entertained . You probably spend your weekends at a soup kitchen, teach abstract math to under-privileged children in the inner city and play the fiddle for the good folks in palliative care at your local seniors home. Well done superior white "man".

Anyway's, as I said, but you don't seem to want accept is your lack of perspective. For every asian girl you say doesn't like asian guys I know 10 that would have nothing to do with white guys. In fact, I recently tried to convince a friend of mine to give a nice white dude a chance. Not sure it worked though. For every place in the world you tell me white people are treated like gods, there's a 100 places where you would be strung up and stoned just for being white. Again, Narcissism is a treatable mental illness you know. Just saying.

Oh and just as a side note. I noticed in your list of languages you didn't have English. But I guess you knew that. Hahahaha!!!

Awaiting your response...
(I haven't found a white guy this entertaining since my Irish buddy decided to light his ass on fire after chugging a pint of Guinness)

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AboutTime Hahahahaha.... seriously you crack me up... 'douchebag' hahaha!!! OMG please keep going... you are hilarious!

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Ed Oh Ed... seriously - try to enjoy life! Getting all wound up is not the answer. Just grow up a little and see the world from different perspectives - and try to accept it? You come across as a small-minded person threatened by white people... it's sad - and I'm sorry you feel like this. I haven't said anything about the Asian race which is derogative... (I'm only echoing what a few girls have said) but you feel the need to put the entire white population in its place. It's unfortunate, but I guess I'm beginning to understand things better... and possibly understand why the title of this blog exists... hahaha!

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man Wow man "enjoy life", "grow up". Have your arguments really come to this?Not sure whether to laugh or feel sorry for you. A bit of both actually.

Not sure how many times I have to say this to you but I'll keep going if only to ensure at some point that you get medical help. Narcissism is a very self destructive mental illness and can lead to violent phsychosis. In fact many serial killers are believed to have narcissistic tendencies. It's very unhealthy to create fantasy world and then attempt to apply those rules to the real world. Go out meet new people from different backgrounds, maybe travel. And no, not the fantasy travel that you've been doing.

I hate to tell you this but your responses are becoming even less cohesive than your original post. Which at best was a jumble of racist ideas and generalizations. If you don't think so then I'm absolutely certain you're in a drug induced, fantasy state. I guess that is the world you created though so until you get help, it's really all we can expect from you.

Awaiting your response...
(On another note please put in more of those "don't worry be happy" references, splatter a couple of those "Hahaha's" and "you are hilarious" as well, it makes your post feel fuzzy.

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Ed You write a lot to me... are you that lonely?

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man You're the most entertaining thing on this thread!! Why wouldn't I write to you? We don't get alot from the "stormfront.org" folks so you're a breath of fresh air. A bit of smog, with the lingering garbage and sewage smell, but fresh none the less.

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man Bullshit. You don't have any asian girlfriends. You have asian underaged sex slaves that you lured into your basement dungeon. And you're telling me white dudes don't look fucking feminine? Uh ever hear of Hanson? Fucking pedophile faggot pieces of shit like you make me want to puke.

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man Oh my god... I hate you sooo much!!! I really hate you people! As a white male let me say to ANY Asian male reading this, we are not all PRICKS like the asshole who calls himself "man". I really hate you because people with your personality are not just with Asian girls, there are white people like you with other types of girls (black, hispanic, middle eastern) that give white guys a bad name! Honestly go die in a hole, you are an embarrassment to our race!

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They don't have any pride in themselves or their culture. Asian men know what they got to do. They care about family and want their offspring like themselves because they are PROUD. We're all trying to working to our goal for our future family's sake. Girls mostly are weak minded. AF's don't see what AmeriKKKa is doing to their brains. They make you hate your own kind. I can't believe it. I use to be dumb myself, but I never hated my own Asian people. What's wrong with you girls? You need to look in the mirror and see yourself. I wonder how many of these Asian girls that date white folks even know anything about the history of the country their culture stems from? Probably 10%And to my brothers: Some guy mentioned this earlier. Remember Bruce Lee and Jackie Chan. They kicked white ass all the time and they showed who was superior and who was inferior. So if you ever get the blues picture them in your head kicking Chuck Norris's, Benny The Jet or Abdul Jaabar's ass. :)

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Asian_Brown_Eyes You do realize that using Bruce Lee as an example tells me that you're in that 10% that you mention.

Bruce Lee himself married a white girl. His mother was of German and Chinese descent, which makes him a quarter Caucasian.

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