anyway, long story short, so long as we continue to see clear ‘trends’ in I/R dating, even in a melting pot such as NYC, it’s clear that there’s still lots of stereotyping and self-hate going on…people deciding who to date, and who NOT to date, based on race. If that were NOT the case, we’d see more variety in the I/R couples out there. But you don’t….it’s the same old trends, esp in the yuppie/hipster nabes.

It doesn’t matter what the media has stereotyped us asian to be like because I know I am not weak and feminine like those fictional figures. I do understand that about 1.89 in 5 asian guys that I see are skinny, feminine looking(girly hair cut), and passive, and feel sorry for them for living the stereotypical life of an asian. At least work out chopsticks! They are who they are, but it doesn’t forced me to conformed to that group.

If all skinny asians work out the stereotypes will vanished. Why bub? Working out will give you more confidence, more muscles, more authority, and a better view of the beach( I made that one up, the meaning is for you to figure out). Now, all the white girls will think “Big muscle, Big house, Big Car, and Big wallet” instead of small dick or fag( that’s what my gfs(asian too) tell me about their first impression of asian and me HA!).

Blah, blah, blah. I go for all girls that has a balanced of intelligent and looks, no matter their race because I am not solely attracted to race but to attraction itself. I will do what ever I please to make myself happy. I will not be limited and forced to live an asian life: asian+asian= again. Instead,

asian+ who ever i want = My Happiness.

My point is: Your life, Your move Sucka! —> dont ask me what this mean either, because it sounds good and fits with the points I have made.

The number of Asian Males starting relationships with White Females and females of other races will only increase as more and more Asian Males develop the bravery and courage to overcome their previous fears and get the guts to just go for it and ask women of other races out on dates whether they succeed or fail at first. And it will also increase as enough Asian Males develop enough adaptability skills to figure out the reason why they failed if they did not succeed at first in getting a date with a women of another race and so then change themselves so that they grow as people and improve themselves so that they take a different approach so that they succeed the next time, and as they develop enough persistency to keep on trying even if they do not initially succeed at first.

As more and more Asian Males ask White Women and women of other races out on dates, more and more Asian Men will succeed in dating them and more and more Asian Men and White Women and women of other races will see this, and the numbers of couples will build up critical mass and more and more Asian Males and Women of Other Races will do the same thing and it will have a rolling snowball effect. More and more Asian Males will succeed in starting relationships with women of other races, and the numbers of Asian Male-Females of Other Races couples will only increase as time goes by. As the ancient Chinese used to say, sometimes you just have to “jump into the open ocean”. And as the old Western sayings go, “No guts, no glory”, and “Fortune favors the brave.”

I do think however, that Asian Men should not mind if White Men or other races of men increasingly start relationships with Asian Women, even if there are an extremely large number of such relationships and women of other races don’t reciprocate as readily at first. You can still start relationships with other races of women, you just have to overcome greater odds in order to do so. But let us always keep peace with one another no matter what happens. I believe that this should be true even if this causes many Asian Women to reject Asian Men and to look down on them and to put them down as unworthy of them also. That will never be true for Asian Men and Asian Women and for Asian Men and any other race of women also, or for any woman individually. I do not think that if this happens and Asian Women start making fun of Asian Men, that Asian Men should lower themselves to respond to and fight back against Asian Women who stoop down to that level to do such a thing, because all it means is that if there are no more Asian Women who will start relationships with Asian Men, that Asian Men will have to start relationships with women of other races instead of Asian Women. It may be harder to do such a thing, and Asian Men may have to adjust themselves as people and grow and improve themselves as people in order to do such a thing and you may have to take yourself out of your comfort zone, but, as the increasing number of Asian Man-Women of other Races couples prove, it is possible.

I also do not think that Asian Men should mind White Men and men of other races starting relationships with Asian Women also because for Asian Men who believe in interracial relationships with Asian Men and Women of Other Races, it would be hypocritical for them to be against Asian Female-Men of Other Races relationships. It would be a double-standard and would be forbidding others to do what Asian Men want themselves, you’re supposed to treat others the way you want to be treated in life, and so because it is wrong for Asian Men who are for Asian Man-Women of Other Races relationships to be against Asian Woman-Men of Other Races couples, I do not think that Asian Men should be against it at all. And I think that the Asian Men who are against such a thing and who are so are just stressing themselves out over something that they should not mind at all.

Plus, you could look at the bright side and think of it this way, with so many men of other races starting so many relationships with Asian Women, it causes women of other races to think of Asian Men as possible future partners for themselves also, as likewise, many men of their own race have found Asian Women to be compatible partners with them as well. And Asian Women-Men of Other Races couples cause women of other races to start think of starting future relationships with Asian Men and cause them to realize that an Asian partner might make a compatible future mate for them as well. In fact, many White Men even know that this effect occurs, and so they try to stop other races of men from starting relationships with Asian Women so that they can prevent Asian Men from starting relationships with other races of women. So, by being against Asian Women and Men of Other Races couples, you are just taking away other people’s freedom of choice which you should respect, being racist yourself, being a hypocrite and practicing, especially if you are for Asian Men starting relationships with Women of Other Races, playing into other people’s hands who are completely racist against you without you even realizing it, and just being self-destructive.

And also, if Asian Men prefer other races of Women besides White Women, then they should feel free to start relationships with other races of Women as well, such as Black Women, Latina Women, Native American Women, or non-East Asian Asian Women. Many East Asian Men tell stories on the Internet that say that it is easier to start a relationship with a Black Women or a Latina Women than it is to start a relationship with a White Women, and deep down underneath it all, we are all equal, and are all attractive blessed races with something good to offer to the others, and to benefit others, with none being without worth or value, and it is a person’s own choice after all, and that right should be respected.

Although if an Asian Male prefers only White Females, and of course, if a White Female prefers only Asian Males, then it is their choice, and they both should have the freedom to choose to do whatever they want and they should both have their choices be respected without other people interfering in it.

Which is that taller dudes tend to gravitate towards the smaller women out there, so the Asian male is basically caught in a demographic squeeze from two different demographic flying wedge formations!!!

Of course for the bigger Asian dudes out there, they have a much larger demographic pool to swim in and frankly the size factor is a huge factor.

So in summary it is harder being Asian and smaller than average and being less aggressive generally. But once I hit my thirties, I became much more confident and waded into all the different pools and made out like a bandit. Frankly I gave up on the Asian female pretty quickly after a certain point, because I have noticed that so many of them tend to be spoiled, petulant and frankly one dimensional in more ways than one. I found the love of my life in my favorite country for women and tell all of my Asian friends to not bother with this demographic and just get out there and give everyone else a shot!