The best question to ask any woman is whether she would ever date an East or SE Asian man.

If she hesitates (with a response like, ummmm, or uhhhhh) to answer or answers NO, thank her for saving you 20 minutes of fruitless conversation.

Of the two genders of Americanized Asians, the female is much more likely to exhibit racist or dismissive or downright disgusted views of males of her own race. Men of her own race aren’t worthy enough in her limited view. Once she feels that she is assimilated herself into the dominant power structure, she feels superior to Asian men; to her, Asian men are part of her FOB/Asian past.

Americanized Asian women have an over-burning desire to fit into the dominant white American culture. Of the racial/ethnic minority groups, Asian women are the ones most likely to exhibit the most obnoxious traits of white American society; loud, obnoxious, xenophobic, over-bearing, materialistic, superficial, and basically your archetypical satire of an over-exuberant cheerleader. You don’t see black and Latino women trying so desperately to fit into mainstream white America as you see Asian women trying to do so.

The bottom line is that Americanized Asian women want their children to grow up into the dominant white culture. Over time and with each successive generation, the Asian part of their children’s heritage will disappear; that is the goal of Americanized Asian females. To such women, white is seen as the most powerful, the most wealthy, the most likely to succeed. Americanized Asian women crave power and status above all else.

Then you add Madison Avenue and Hollywood making Asian men virtually invisible and the fact that Asian women readily, willingly, and easily buy into these stereotypes of Asian men. Given the pervasiveness of the mass media, why in here right mind would an Americanized Asian female ever want to date someone of her own race?

As a side note, there is no sympathy for white women who complain that Asian women are stealing their men. White women’s racist views of non-whites prohibits them from fating

So if you REALLY wanted to test a white woman’s racism, simply blindfold her and have several Americanized men of different racial and ethnic backgrounds try and talk to her. (Americanized means no discernable foreign accent, shares American values, and had a typical American childhood.). These men are not allowed to talk about anything that might give away their race/ethnicity. It would be HILARIOUS if the man she responds to is the one who’s not white.

The reality is that white women think of themselves as being at the top of the female pecking order. As such, she feels superior to all other races. The only one worthy of her attention is someone of the same race. Pity that white men are much more likely to date outside their race than white women.

Bottom line is this: Asian men should categorically write off Americanized Asian females; they simply aren’t worth the effort of finding the diamond in the rough. White American women are slightly better, but not by much. Both groups think of themselves as superior to Asian men in all aspects; dating an Asian man would be “dating down.” Asian men are much better dating Latino, black or European females who don’t typically hold such racist beliefs.

Basically, Asian girls exclusively dating white guys to get away from that culture you hate so much are only hurting themselves more. You should really think about because it seems like the joke is on you. According to this result, Asian males have a higher respect for you over white males. (If you didn’t recognize that before this then I don’t know what to say about you, self-loathing?)

Check out the book, “Relationship Among Asian American Women” edited by Jean Lau Chin.

Here is the survey result from my book that I just scanned.
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