While there are certainly guys out there with an asian fetish, I too agree that it's in fact the asian WOMEN driivng the proliferation of asian female/white male couples. Men have radar. Guys talk. And the secret is out that asian women are much more receptive to white men, and even black men now….much more than they would be to an asian man.

I once was walking down the street with an asian woman/white man couple…they are both ultra-PC types. As we passed another AF/WM couples on the street, the asian woman next to me mumbled “white wolf!” I asked her why she said that, and she went on some politically correct tirade about how white men fetishize asian women. I guess what she was trying to imply was that all asian women that are with white men are their completely innocent, unwitting victims or something?! And yet her SHE was, herself married to a white guy! Talk about hypocrisy.

But I guess as long as certain asian women come off as pseudo-intellectual politically-correct feminists and lambaste “white wolves”, it's still ok for THEM to be with white men. Cuz then we are supposed to think that THEY couldn't possibly be with each other because of racial stereotypes. Oh no…it's all those OTHER AF/WM couples out there that are the racists/fetishists.

In Manhattan (with the exception of the Chinatown area), I'd have to say that just about every asian woman I see walking down the street is with a NON-Asian man. So clearly it's the asian women driving this.

and this is only my observation and opinion…..

A) For Men dealing with women, when it comes to desirability, fantasy ect… it goes as follows: White Women, Asian Woman (including E. Indian), Hispanic (latin) origin….and then Black

I find this offensive at times but its reality because of stereotypes. I do understand how the Asian men feel because for them (reading blogs and studies) it seems as if they are on the bottom for women..

B) Asian Men and Black Women sometimes (not all the time) cancel one another out because we both are “loyal” if you want to call it that, to our own (what i would call) “culture”.

for me race doesn't matter like it may for some. It is the environment you grow up in which in turn shapes your character and characteristics.

I personally like asian men, never had the opportunity to date one because of my location. In college i met 3 japanese men, one which i thought was extremely attractive. He had a great style…the problem was he spoke very little english (since all 3 came to school straight from japan) and i just knew that would be a factor, and they were all extremely close (they would sit on each other's laps and what not…) just major cultural differences because they were not americanized.

The big question is whether Asian would be interested in Black women is a whole new post and discussion in itself…..

White women can date black men (our polar opposites), without me getting upset. Once some of you Asian men, accept Asian women dating white men, without getting upset—you will join my camp of self confidence and ramp up your sexual attractiveness. My happiness doesn’t depend on what others are doing, and nor does my self esteem. Join me my friends, let’s live life for ourselves! Dicks aren’t that important (going by unproved stereotypes) blacks are the least preferred for every ethnic group of women (excluding black women). So you guys are not at the bottom of sexual food chain by any stretch. Your value is not at the bottom by any means, just be glad you don’t face the same obstacles man black men face. Born into poverty, not many role models, etc. Focus on the positives! Get an education, good job, and everything will sort itself out, okay?