Tiger Moms Are Still Making Headlines

By Guest Writer | Thursday, October 25, 2012 | 2 Comments

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By John Kim

Even as the Tiger Mom debate has started to fizzle out, she’s still making some press. It seems that Singapore’s prime minister has caught some flak for denouncing tiger mother-style parenting. I couldn’t help but wonder if things are looking hopeful for overburdened children in Asia. It’s no small feat that the prime minister of Singapore, whose country has experienced a great deal of success arguably as a result of tiger mothering, would suggest parents “let your children have their childhood…Instead of growing up balanced and happy, he grows up narrow and neurotic. No homework is not a bad thing. It’s good for young children to play, and to learn through play.” While this speech may reflect signs of hope that over-strict parenting is in decline, a part of me still fears that the Tiger Mom still lurks in the shadows.

The article goes on to suggest that tiger parenting might be putting Singapore’s economy at risk since these days, it is less manufacturing and more innovation ( or “knowledge economies”) that are driving prosperity. Many look to the success of Apple, now the most profitable company in the world, whose innovative vision came from a person who did not graduate college. China seems to have caught wind of the economic value of innovation, too, creating policies and providing awards to help spur the filing of patents, which have skyrocketed in recent years.

So then one needs to ask, is it really healthy children that is the motivation for this change of tone? Is it a populace of well-adjusted children who are willing to eschew the top spots in university or high paying jobs in order to achieve a healthy work life balance? Maybe not. I wonder if rather than reflecting an interest in develop social, emotionally healthy individuals, this denouncing of tiger moms is really a reflection of the awareness by countries that they need to adapt to the new economy of knowledge and innovation. But then it begs the question – can you manufacture innovation?

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“While this speech may reflect signs of hope that over-strict parenting is in decline, a part of me still fears that the Tiger Mom still lurks in the shadows.”
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The first step to decline. Countries like Singapore can not afford to rest.
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“can you manufacture innovation?”

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A question I have pondered myself. Can you teach creativity?
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Education can enhance creative abilities but it appears some people got it and the rest do not. Probably a gene pool thing.
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Sort of like some people are gifted violin players, some are just gifted listeners and the rest watch American Idol.
http://www.8asians.com/author/ancientone95131/ jeffat8asians

Innovation can be taught – principles of innovation and invention have been worked out in systems like TRIZ. I usually go over some of this when I hold patent sessions at work.

While the principles of innovation and creativity can be taught, there are some attitudes that are very helpful in taking ideas and implementing them, and some of these are get stamped out by Tiger mom parenting. One example is “be willing to fail often and quickly.” In Silicon Valley, most startups don’t make it. If you expect perfection every time, you most likely won’t take risks to do something creative and new. Or if you are afraid that people will mock if you don’t succeed, you also won’t take creative risks.

Great and innovative ideas come up also when you mix ideas and people from vastly different areas. Some of my own most referenced technical work came from collaborating with an English major/Library Science/former school teacher, whose experiences proved very useful. If you are channeled in a very narrow direction (as some Tiger Moms want), you might not meet people in wildly different areas who can inspire some of these ideas.

Being rebellious and not doing what you are supposed to is often useful for innovation. Many innovations have been done by skunkworks operations that people weren’t supposed to be working on as their main job. Again, not a practice encouraged by Tiger moms.

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