Everyone loves dim sum! So why not wear it on your wrist? Komodokat on Etsy is offering this adorable charm bracelet ($24) featuring our favorite Chinese dim sum dishes hand crafted from clay.
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Everyone loves dim sum! So why not wear it on your wrist? Komodokat on Etsy is offering this adorable charm bracelet ($24) featuring our favorite Chinese dim sum dishes hand crafted from clay.
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Oh, Tila Tequila. Remember when people took her seriously? (Okay, maybe “half-seriously” as opposed to “none-seriously” today.) We praised her ability to market herself from just being “a simple import model” around three years ago, but then she went batshit crazy, got choked (or maybe not) by her boyfriend and then her lesbian wife died of an overdose of diabetes. (Or maybe not.)
Now she has tentatively blamed an alter ego for a suicide attempt and is reportedly on the fourth season of Celebrity Rehab. Wow, this would all be really ABCs after-school special or tragic my-life-in-three-minutes rocker music video; all we need is another Asian girl who’s just as much of a hot mess as she is.
By Vanessa
Amidst the numerous glittery ensembles and awkward scripted antics of celebrity presenters, the 2010 MTV movie awards this past Sunday featured a surprisingly healthy number of Asian male actors as presenters, nominees and winners.
The panel of heavy-hitters included host Aziz Ansari of Parks and Recreation, a “wildcard” choice Ken Jeong from The Hangover, Jackie Chan, and Rain, the Korean pop star from Ninja Assassin.
Aziz exhibited his versatility by going through more outfit changes than Christina Aguilera, ranging from a dapper tuxedo to an outfit that seemed one-part Snoog Dogg, one-part Karate Kid.
Ken Jeong, teary-eyed and refreshingly energetic, gave an emotional speech as he accepted his award for “Best WTF moment” in The Hangover.
As for Rain, perhaps his popularity is more concentrated within the Korean circles or perhaps I’ve been living under a rock, but my only exposure to Rain has been through The Steven Colbert Show, in which Colbert challenged Rain to a much-publicized dance-off after losing a popularity contest featured in Time magazine. But apparently Rain is considered a huge sex symbol in Asia, so it was quite refreshing to see that he won the award for “Best Badass Actor,” presented by Jackie Chan, no less. This award will definitely help to cement his crossover appeal to American audiences though it will be interesting to see if his apparently enormous sex appeal in Asia crosses over too.
But let’s talk frankly here. With two counts of desexualized Asian goofballs (Aziz and Ken) and two “ninja” martial arts stars (Jackie and Rain), we’re really branching out in terms of representation in the media, aren’t we? It seems like the only place in society for Asian male actors has to fit neatly in those two categories. I mean, Ken’s performance running around naked as a flamboyant Chinese gangster in The Hangover was brilliantly funny, but it doesn’t really help to dispel any stereotypes about Asian men in the US.
Have we made any progress since Jackie Chan? And where are the women? I don’t think it’s about roles being created specifically “for” Asian actors, especially since Ken Jeong has said he always gets roles intended for “50-year-old white men”, but the fact that he had to adopt an accent and bring out some Kung-Fu moves in The Hangover is telling. I’m hoping to see more diversified roles in the future for Asian actors, but happy that at least we’re getting some face time in the media.
Vanessa lives in New York City and works in marketing in the beauty industry. In her free time, she moonlights as a writer and unauthorized restaurant critic with a voracious appetite for travel, fashion, cringe-worthy reality television, and all things Asian-American.
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As we’ve blogged before, there is a growing interest in America amongst parents, kids and college students studying Chinese due to explosive economic growth of China — with local and state budgets shrinking, many communities are challenged to fund their schools properly.
Perhaps recognizing this, the Chinese government has been funding and subsidizing Chinese language and culture programs known as the “Confucius Classroom” in the United States the past few years. Given the xenophobic nature of some misguided Americans these days, many are up in arms over this. The Daily Show’s “news correspondent” Asiv Mandi does a hilarious investigative piece on such a program in Hacienda Heights, California earlier this week on the ridiculousness that these Chinese language and culture programs may spread Communistic ideals to students – especially since the curriculum is public and open for review, and that all teaching is being done by certificated California teachers.
True to Daily Show fashion, the opponent of the program comes across as a complete idiot while being interviewed. Jay Chen, a vice-president of the school board and an Asian American born-and-raised in Hacienda Heights, does a dignified job of defending the program and dismissing Mandi’s humorous attempts to get Chen to admit he’s a Chinese turncoat. And I just love how the kids respond to Asiv Mandi’s line of questioning.
One of big online shopping sites in China, taobao.com, reports that male bras, imported from Japan, are a hot item. In Japan, they are apparently a hot seller (as you can see in the video), even for the steep price of $30 per bra. The bras are apparently popular with cross dressers and metrosexuals who need to support sagging male pectorals, also known as manboobs or moobs. Thin men who want to beef up their chest are also said to be customers. Interesting trend, especially as a school in Chinese is trying to make boys more masculine.
There was a request on the internal 8asians e-mail list that I post a picture of myself in a man bra, but some felt that me in a bra would be far too disturbing an image.
In lieu of today’s environment, it’s no wonder that Buddha is donning a gas mask in this Urban Cleansing T-shirt design ($26) from artist Martin Hsu — and just in time for the BP oil spill, too! Make your statement without going literally green (and looking like a douche, while you’re at it.) Printed on American Apparel shirts, it’s available for both men and women sizes.
It’s a toy! It’s a musical instrument! No, it’s both! Those piano lessons from your youth may be over, but now you can try your hand at the Otamatone ($45.95), which looks more like a toy than it does anything else. Shaped like a musical note, the Otamatone sounds kind of like a theremin with a cute mouth that you can squeeze to “sing.” Check out the video demonstration here, and buy yourself one on Amazon.
Once upon a time, Babee and Blanket went on a journey to discover the Legendary Golden Cupcake, protected by the frightful Hungry Ninja guardians. And so the story begins in Fat Rabbit Farm’s Babee and the Valley of the Hungry Ninjas ($26), written by playwright, screenwriter and comic book author Nicholas Doan and illustrated by Patty Variboa, one half of the duo behind Fat Rabbit Farm. The book comes out on August 2nd, 2010 but get your pre-orders in today; we need to make sure our children understand the dangers of hungry ninjas ASAP.
Anyone who grew up a child of Chinese immigrants can probably relate to the embarrassment of having to use medicines that aren’t commonplace in American society, especially those that leave an unmistakable odor. Just this week, the smell from Chinese medicinal herbs on board United flight 972 caused the plane to undergo a delay for a second security check, once a flight attendant caught a whiff of the herbs (which she described as a toxic chemical smell) in a carry-on bag. The owners of the bag containing the herbs were an elderly Chinese couple. They were not charged and the plane eventually made its way to its final destination of Chicago.
While I’ve never experienced anything that embarrassing due to Chinese medicines, I’ve had my share of history and ridicule for using wan-jian-you (tiger balm); seirogan (a creosote based laxative); and salonpas (pain relieving patch). All of these produced a highly distinct odor and were immediately noticed by my non-Chinese classmates during my school years. To store these medicines, I’ve often put them in double ziploc bags, but usually even that doesn’t do much to contain the odor.
As offensive as the smell is of many of these medicines, I still rely on them to get the job done. I just haven’t found any American medicines that are as effective at producing results as my Asian medicine standbys. So I guess I will continue to offend others with my unmistakable odor.
I’m sure there are other equally offensive Asian medicines out there, and plenty of stories to go with them. Lucky for me, while my smell may have offended others, I never stopped a plane from leaving for its destination.
Has China’s one-child policy made parents too overprotective — to the point that their boys are spoiled and causing them to be “sissies?” This is one of the reasons why Qinlinglu Elementary School in Zhengzhou, Henan province, has started a new initiative called ‘Looking for a Real Man’ encourages boys to act more like… well.. boys.
As part of this the youngsters are taught how to act more masculine and must take an oath swearing to act like ‘real men’, reports the Dahe Daily.
Wang Jianhua, who has been teaching at the school for 14 years, says he has noticed that boys have become “more and more girly.”
In contrast, he says the girls at the school are becoming wilder and wilder. [full story]
I want to know what these lessons involve: Fighting? General mischief and misbehavior? Medical exams to be sure they are have the correct proportions of frogs and snails and puppy-dogs’ tails?
I think they’re wasting their time on this initiative. Everyone knows the way to “man up” is to listen and learn carefully* from the songs of Disney’s Mulan:
Be a man
We must be swift as the coursing river
Be a man
With all the force of a great typhoon
Be a man
With all the strength of a raging fire
Mysterious as the dark side of the moon
(From I’ll Make a Man Out of You)
* Extra man points if you also sing and do your own choreography.
(h/t: ProfessorEric)
Back in April, Prudential Financial published a report titled “Asian Americans on the Road to Retirement (.pdf)”. Perhaps the report was a bit self-serving to get more Asian Americans interested in financial planning – specifically with Prudential Financial. But this got me thinking as to how Asian Americans learn how to earn, save, invest and spend.
Of course, people are mostly shaped by their parents. Certainly, my relationship with money was shaped that way. I think my parents’ generation generally grew up in relatively poor and emerging countries, such as Taiwan in the 50’s and 60’s, so there was not much wealth or much of a social safety net to rely on. I think this resulted in being frugal and saving for the future being ingrained in my parents.
I grew up in a pretty middle class family. My parents’ biggest financial concerns, beyond the monthly mortgage and daily living expenses, was saving for college for my brother and I, as well as for their retirement. My father was especially frugal. We really didn’t go on any big vacations (our biggest was driving from Massachusetts to Orlando and back to visit Disney World & EPCOT center the year that EPCOT opened). I recall every month, my father recording in a notebook, the expenses in various categories – like one would do in Quicken or track on Mint.com.
My Aunt in Pennsylvania was a successful realtor and had several rental properties. Our family co-invested in a duplex and had our Aunt handle all the details. I’m not sure we ever made a huge amount of money, since that market in North-Western Pennsylvania never really appreciated much.
I recall every quarter, we’d get Exxon’s (now ExxonMobile) publication The Lamp. I asked why my father invested in Exxon. He felt that the world always needed oil and that it was a safe investment. Plus, Exxon had a DRIP – Dividend Reinvestment Plan, so investing for the long-term was easy and didn’t require a broker and any commission charges. Working for a college, my father had his retirement savings similar to a 401k in TIAA-CREF. I always had an interest in business and stocks, and even subscribed and read BusinessWeek and Fortune and even read Fidelity Investments’ Peter Lynch’s “One Up on Wall Street.”
In college, I’d save up my summer jobs’ earnings for my expenses for college for the coming year, so I never really had money to save or invest in afterwards. Graduating with over $17,000 in college loans ($25,000 in 2009 dollars), I was lucky to find a job towards the tail end of the early 1990s recession, started paying off my student loans and then started to save and invest.
Only after college did I start investing in an IRA, and later in a 401k. I also started learning more about stock investments early on in 1993 on AOL via The Motley Fool, an early pioneer in online communities about stock investing.
I’ve always managed my own stock investments, retirement and savings, mostly because that is the only way I’ve known how and probably a bit of ego – i.e. I should be smart enough to do my own investing and savings (and hopefully outperform the market!). Amongst my peers, I really don’t know anybody that has enlisted a financial planner or wealth manager. But after reviewing the Prudential Financial report, that got me thinking as to whether or not I should. According to the report, only 18% of Asian Americans, out of a pre-screened sample size of 656 between the ages of 25 and 65 with a household income of $50,000 or more, are currently using a financial professional).
As in any professional services practice, referrals are a key pipeline – such as looking for a doctor, lawyer, accountant or tax advisor. Only in the past few years, have I gotten to know a financial advisor or planner here or there. A while ago Ernie Tan at WTDirect had reached out to 8Asians to educate and inform our readers about different savings and investment options.
I’m sure I’ll take financial planning more seriously if I ever get married and especially if I am raising a family. I wonder if others have felt though that growing up Asian American has affected and influenced your thoughts on saving and planning versus your non-Asian American peers? In general, I think the children of immigrants have always had a certain level of frugality, hard work and savings mentality that pervades across most Americans immigrant experiences, let alone Asian American ones.
(Flickr photo credit: Alan Cleaver)