8Books Review: “Dear Girls” by Ali Wong

Ali Wong’s Dear Girls will make you laugh, cry, and will also make you hungry. But overall you will be happier, and it seems like maybe in 2020, we’re going to want some more happy.

I had every honest and heartfelt intention of telling you to get this book for your friends and families for Christmas. But obviously I missed the boat. And then I thought, a Lunar New Year present. But I missed that boat too. So now I will tell you that you should just go get a copy for yourself.

Not for the hilarious list of how to tell a good Asian restaurant from a bad Asian restaurant which made the internet rounds when Dear Girls first came out — you don’t need that. But for Wong’s complete candor about every aspect of her life, from her childhood to “Tips on Giving Birth” to the adventures that led to the disclaimer “Dear Girls, you are prohibited from reading this book until you are twenty-one years old.” If you don’t already know, the eponymous girls are Wong’s two daughters and the book is meant as a letter to them. Especially sweet is the note Wong’s husband wrote as the epilogue.

It’s enormously fun to read, and if you can hear Ali Wong’s voice in your head while you read it from having watched her stand-up specials multiple times, well, all the more fun.

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Bong Joon Ho’s ‘Parasite’ cleans up at the Oscars; watch it now on 4K Ultra HD Digital, Blu-ray™, DVD and On Demand

Parasite made history last night as the first Korean film to receive an Oscar®, but clinching four top Academy Awards: Best Picture, Best Director, Best Original Screenplay, and Best International Film is the pinnacle of a spectacular awards season for a film which has racked up more than 100 award nominations to date.

(Back in October, Decerry reviewed this movie and gave it a 10/10, so don’t say we didn’t tell you to catch this one early.)

A volatile, symbiotic relationship between the uber-wealthy and the have-nots comes into full display in Parasite, which arrived on 4K Ultra HD Digital as well as Blu-ray, DVD and On Demand in January from Universal Pictures Home Entertainment and NEON. Fans can now delve deep into the mind of filmmaker Bong Joon Ho, and the symbolism behind the film with an exclusive Q&A bonus feature with the acclaimed director.

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In Parasite, meet the Park family, the picture of aspirational wealth and the Kim family, rich in street smarts but not much else. Be it chance or fate, these two houses are brought together and the Kims sense a golden opportunity. Masterminded by college-aged Ki-woo, the Kim children expediently install themselves as tutor and art therapist to the Parks. Soon, a symbiotic relationship forms between the two families. The Kims provide “indispensable” luxury services while the Parks obliviously bankroll their entire household. When a parasitic interloper threatens the Kims’ newfound comfort, a savage, underhanded battle for dominance breaks out, threatening to destroy the fragile ecosystem between the Kims and the Parks.

Now you really have no excuse to have not seen it.

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UC Berkeley Tang Center: Xenophobia a “Common” and “Normal” reaction to the Coronavirus

In an incident full of irony on multiple levels, UC Berkeley’s University Health Services Tang Center, named after donor and Hong Kong businessman Jack Tang, posted the above note on social media for Cal students, many of whom are Asian descent.   Xenophobia is a common and normal reaction to the Coronavirus situation?  After criticism like the tweet below from an Berkeley alum,  the Health Center apologized, deleted the xenophobia bullet, and put the updated version here.

The question remains:  is xenophobia a common and normal reaction along with guilt about it?  There are reports of Asian Americans being attacked because of coronavirus concerns among other incidents.  I’d say that given US history and current, xenophobia from virus news is not uncommon but shouldn’t be normal and definitely not right.  The part I wonder about is whether people feeling xenophobic because of the virus actually feel guilty.

On a side note, there are reports of Chinatown businesses losing a lot of business.  It’s hard to pin that down to xenophobia as the Asian locals might be staying away.  I had dinner last week at my favorite Malaysian restaurant in Milpitas, and the usually crowded restaurant was almost empty.  The waiter blamed it on coronavirus fears, particularly from the large Chinese population of Milpitas.  Milpitas Square, a large Asian mall also in Milpitas, had plenty of parking spaces at lunch last week, something that usually doesn’t happen on a weekday.

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NYC Theater Review: Border People

Border People is a journalistic one-man theater piece by Dan Hoyle that dwells on the broad theme of “borders.” It’s now being performed at A.R.T. / New York Theatres in New York City. Based on in-depth conversations and interviews at places in the U.S., Mexico, and Canada, Hoyle enacts first one person, then another person, in a string of edited interview snippets from people whose live have been shaped by one kind of a border or another–from those who have literally tried to cross the border, to those who lives are more metaphorically on a border.

The lines are poignant, ricocheting from comedic to dramatic in a beat, and the stories are compelling, heart-breaking, and human. From a high school kid talking about prom in Buffalo and his life growing up in Afghanistan, to a pagan farmer living in southern Arizona who talks to his goats. A black guy from the Bronx on why he wears sweater vests and Jordans to convey so much history and baggage that goes unsaid. A Saudi-born Palestinian, who having fled Saudi Arabia for the U.S., is now leaving for Canada. There’s a lot of heart in how Hoyle brings the emotions of the experience to the fore.

That being said, it’s hard to get over the fact that Hoyle is white. That he’s a white guy acting as mostly non-white people for a predominantly white audience. It’s something overtly acknowledged throughout the work, with Hoyle incorporating self-referential snippets from his interviewees. And it certainly feels like Hoyle’s process of “the journalism of hanging out” is sincere and thorough. He’s invested, as the conversation reprinted in the program says, “in trying to see the world through the eyes of folks there, of listening deeply.” He goes on, “I always get permission from the people I meet. I ask questions but I try to let go of any agenda I might have and let the people I’m hanging out with be in charge.”

As a result, there are real truths at the heart of Border People. But still. And yet.

Border People is written and performed by Dan Hoyle and directed by Nicole A. Watson. It is playing at A.R.T. / New York Theatres until February 22. Tickets are $30 for general admission and $40 for reserved seating. Discounts are available for students, seniors, union members and groups. Visit https://theworkingtheater.org/ to learn more or purchase tickets.

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Asian American Commercial Watch: Samsung’s ‘Galaxy Note10: Mission Statement from Kevin Lin’

https://youtu.be/b8g7FtjwCl8

I first met fellow Taiwanese American entrepreneur Kevin Lin over a decade ago when he was first working on Justin.tv before that company pivoted to become the very successful Twitch (which was acquired by Amazon for $970 million in cash.) I met him again over a decade later I think at a Taiwanese American conference where I was shocked that he remembered me.  I had forgotten that we had met until he reminded when we had met in the past! Then again, the Taiwanese American community is extremely small.

Kevin now stars in a Samsung commercial about the Samsung Galaxy10 Note as well as himself:

“Kevin Lin never thought he could impact anybody. Now, co-founder of Twitch and Gold House, he’s one of the biggest connectors in the world. He talked about the importance of giving back to young entrepreneurs and how the #GalaxyNote10 helps him connect, manage his busy schedule, and also have a little bit of fun.”

I had not heard of anything before about Gold House, but taking a look at it’s website:

“Gold House is a nonprofit collective of diverse leaders dedicated to forging stronger relationships that empower Asians to have more authentic, more successful, and healthier lives to, in turn, advance all of society.”

It looks like the organization also honors every May for AAPI Heritage Month a list of 100 (“A100”) the most impactful Asians and Asian American & Pacific Islanders (AAPIs) in culture – which sounds like kind of a more modern twist and broader inclusion of the ‘Committee of 100’ (which always sounded like an evil James Bond-esque organization like Spectre)

I haven’t bumped into Kevin in a few years and wonder what else he’s up to these days. Hope to catch up with him soon …

 

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Apple’s 2020 Chinese New Year Short: Daughter

In the last few years, Apple has been sponsoring Chinese New Year themed shorts that are shot entirely from an iPhone.  Ad Age points out that 2020’s movie features director Theodore Melfi (“Hidden Figures,” “St. Vincent“) and Chinese actress Zhou Xun.

Apple is not the only American company to make Chinese New Year oriented films/commercials.  John posted about this one from Nike.  I personally like the Apple one better, as the family issues portrayed resonate better to me.  If you liked Daughter, you might want to check Apple Chinese New Year Short from 2019. as well as this video about the making of Daughter.

(h/t: VL)

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Netflix “The Healing Powers of Dude” Actress Sophie Kim

Recently, the Netflix TV series ‘The Healing Powers of Dude” premiered:

“Meet Noah, he’s an 11-year-old with social anxiety disorder starting middle school. School can be tough, but with the help of his emotional support dog, Dude, plus his friends and family, maybe it can be less scary. The Healing Powers of Dude arrives January 13 on Netflix.”

One of Noah’s friends is Amara, played by Sophie Kim. I happen to be friends and former colleagues  with Sophie Kim’s mom. When I saw Sophie Kim’s mom post about her daughter about this, I knew I had to write about this TV series and her role in it:

“Ninety-five percent of characters with disabilities are played by actors without those disabilities. Amara, however, is played by Sophie Kim, an eleven-year-old with muscular dystrophy who has used a wheelchair since she was four years old. The production team committed early on to finding a young actress who uses a wheelchair, holding a nationwide search to find Sophie, and then adapting the role to her real-life experiences. “Representation is very important to us, as well as to Netflix,” said Spates and Littenberg-Weisberg. “We understand the power of seeing yourself represented in media and that the more you see it, the more it can become commonplace… [Casting Sophie] was one of the best decisions we made making this show. There was never a moment where Sophie didn’t show up to set ready to slay her scene. Nothing about her disability ever hindered production in any way.””

As noted above, one rarely see actual actors with disabilities playing a disabled person in TV or film, let alone an Asian American disabled person. The only TV series I can recall prominently highlighting a disabled person in a regular role is “Walt Jr. / Flynn” in ‘Breaking Bad’ (where the character has cerebral palsy, the actor had a milder case of the same condition).

Netflix does a short video segment with Sophie:

Sophie has an amazing singing voice and comes across eloquently, much wiser than her age suggests. I hope that Sophie is able to continue acting in future roles if that’s what she wants to do.  She’s only 11!

 

 

 

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Asian American Commercial Watch: Nike’s Lunar New Year Ad – ‘The Great Chase’

When I first saw this Nike ad for the Chinese New Year in China, I loved it. It brought back many memories of my father fighting over a bill with others at a Chinese restaurant. As noted in this article:

“The ad, which was released just before the Year of The Rat kicks off on Saturday, features the Chinese custom of giving out money-filled red envelopes, which are typically distributed by family elders. While it’s respectful for kids to initially decline the packet, the young girl in the spot takes it to the extreme when her equally-stubborn aunt attempts to give her the New Year’s gift.  …   The result is a cat-and-mouse chase on foot, spanning years, across rooftops and alongside rivers.

Chinese viewers found the ad particularly amusing because of the uncomfortably aggressive, yet also hilarious politeness and humility displayed between the pair. While the “polite fight,” in the spot involves the New Year’s tradition, the contentious back-and-forth is well-known to be prompted by the check at the end of a meal out.”


If you’ve grown up in an Asian household, the practice of fighting over a bill in a group setting or being excessively polite when treated or invited or providing gifts, is quite common, at least from what I’ve seen among Chinese and Taiwanese families.

 

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Fire Likely Destroys Museum of Chinese in America Collection

Last Thursday, a fire at 70 Mulberry Street in New York City’s Chinatown likely destroyed  85,000+ objects that comprise the collection of the Museum of Chinese in America (MOCA). The main museum is at 215 Centre Street, but 70 Mulberry housed the museum’s painstakingly accumulated archives and collections.

The fire is out, but the building remains structurally unsound and what might be left of the archives is inaccessible and assuredly drenched in water. In addition to MOCA’s collection, the building housed a number of other community organizations, including the H.T. Chen Dance Company, Chinatown Manpower Project, Chinatown Senior Center, and United East Athletes Association.

For me personally, it’s the likely destruction of MOCA’s collection that has hit hardest. When MOCA began, it was the only repository of Chinese American history on the East Coast. Staff members and volunteers literally roamed the streets of Chinatown salvaging materials from dumpsters, closing storefronts, and elderly residents. It’s an irreplaceable collection that’s been built up over decades by and for the community. I and countless others have spent hours in their archives, looking at unique materials including treasured family objects, and working with their staff to research and uncover stories from our past.

I have no words but to ask, if you can, to consider donating to MOCA’s recovery fund either on Go Fund Me https://charity.gofundme.com/o/en/campaign/mocafirerecovery or directly on their website https://www.mocanyc.org/

MOCA continues to post updates on its social media pages: Instagram, Twitter, Facebook

Update: This excellent article from Hua Hsu, “What We Lost in the Museum of Chinese in America Fire,” New Yorker which offers additional perspective on the value of the collection and some background on the turmoil MOCA as an institution has been mired in of late.

(photo credit:  Jim Henderson under CC: 3.0)

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Race, Romance, and Retribution: Courtney Milan and the Romance Writers of America

You might think that the world of romance novel writing (known as Romancelandia) is a genteel place removed from the pressures and conflicts of the everyday world.  The RITA awards, shown are above, are awards given yearly by the Romance Writers of America (RWA) association to celebrate excellence in Romance Novels.  This year there will be no RITA awards ceremony as the RWA is in turmoil after a series of events that seem like something out of a novel.   A short summary:  Courtney Milan, a well-known and popular romance writer of color, is suspended by the RWA on ethics violation charges after commenting that another RWA member’s book was full of stereotypes, accusations discovered to be false and/or exaggerated, and members leave RWA and publishers pull out of events.  Author Hillary Monahan puts it better in this tweet:

Chinese American author critiques white woman’s portrayal of Chinese Americans, white woman calls her a neo-nazi for it, RWA backs white woman and censures author, -BACKLASH-, RWA rescinds censure, everyone eats a giant holiday meal, RWA roils in own vomit.

Missing anything?

To say that the plot thickened after the initial suspension would be terribly cliched but accurate.  Courtney Milan worked diligently with the RWA to make it more inclusive, serving on its board and even winning a service award in 2019.  The 20 year old book she was calling out, definitely had its problems.  Here is an excerpt from Milan’s tweets on the book:

“Madam Chin lifted her head in a small gesture of defiance.  “You know how the women of the household behave.  We remain inside of the walls of the women’s compound; we are demure and quiet, as our mothers have trained us to be.  We walk with eyes lowered politely, and may not look higher than a man’s breast.”

As Perez Hilton sarcastically notes regarding the book’s writing, “This was in 1999 and not 1899.”

The Vox article points out that this incident is not surprising when a mostly white institution like the RWA tries to be more inclusive and attitudes that were acceptable in the past no longer are acceptable, citing a similar backlash that happened in Science Fiction a few years ago.  Another fascinating aspect of this story is Courtney Milan herself.   Courtney Milan is the pen name of Heidi Bond, who has had an incredible and varied career that includes earning a Masters degree in Physical Chemistry from Berkeley, serving as a law clerk at the US Supreme Court, and teaching as a law professor.

This story has even more twists and turns than the few I have mentioned and makes for some absorbing reading.  If you are more interested, I suggest taking a look at the following takes on the controversy:

(photo credit:  Barbara Samuel under Creative Commons 2.0)

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“Awkwafina Is Nora From Queens” Debuts January 22nd on Comedy Central

https://youtu.be/iftQNDmcetY

Actress, comedian, and recent Golden Globes winner Awkwafina will be debuting her new Comedy Central series on January 22nd:

“Awkwafina Is Nora From Queens” makes its debut Jan. 22. The series, inspired by her real-life upbringing in New York, also stars BD Wong (“Mr. Robot”) and Lori Tan Chinn (“Orange Is the New Black”) as characters based on the father and grandmother of the actress.

Comedy Central’s press release describes the show as follows:

“… half-hour scripted comedy inspired by her real-life growing up in Queens, NY. Raised by her Dad (BD Wong) and Grandma (Lori Tan Chinn) alongside her cousin (Bowen Yang), Nora Lin leans on her family as she navigates life and young adulthood in outer borough-NYC.”

The first season will be comprised of 10 episodes, and has already been renewed before its debut for a Season 2. I’m looking forward to checking the sitcom out, and I hope it’s as funny as ‘Kim’s Convenience.’

 

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Jonny Kim, ex-Navy SEAL and Harvard doc, is now the first Korean American Astronaut

I had heard of Jonny Kim and his amazing accomplishments, including his training to be an astronaut, but now it’s official:

“Graduating from Harvard Medical School and being a part of the Navy SEALs must not have been enough accomplishments for Jonny Kim. The 35-year-old is now the first Korean-American to become a NASA astronaut.

Kim, along with 12 others, graduated last week from NASA’s Artemis program, allowing the astronauts to be eligible to participate in missions to the International Space Station, to the moon and even Mars.

After he graduated high school in Los Angeles, Kim joined the Navy as a Seaman recruit, which eventually led him to obtain the elite military status of a Navy SEAL. He served as a combat medic, sniper, and navigator on more than 100 combat operations across two deployments to the Middle East, NASA said.

Kim went on to earn his degree in mathematics at the University of San Diego and a doctorate of medicine at Harvard Medical School. At the time of his astronaut candidacy selection in June 2017, Kim was a resident physician at a hospital in Massachusetts, according to NASA.”

Prior to Kim, the most impressive Asian American, at least on “paper” that I had read about (and eventually got to meet) was Yul Kwon, winner of Survivor.

2017 NASA Astronaut Candidate – Jonny Kim. Photo Date: June 6, 2017. Location: Ellington Field – Hangar 276, Tarmac. Photographer: Robert Markowitz

Here’s Kim’s official NASA bio page. I’m looking forward to Kim getting into space!

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