8Books Review: “The Story of a Brief Marriage” by Anuk Arudpragasam

StoryOfABriefMarriage_Anuk_change_colors_more_yellowThe Story of a Brief Marriage by Anuk Arudpragasam is a moving and intimate portrait of a man caught up in Sri Lanka’s civil war. Set in and around a refugee camp, this debut novel offers a peek into just a few short days of Dinesh’s life. Arudpragasm delves deep into this one man’s thought process, drawing it out in eloquent and elegant prose. Moments that take but a few seconds traverse multiple pages, yet the book does not feel like it drags on.

The prose captures the disrupted mindsets of one whose life has been completely overturned by war–one of moving from camp to camp and avoiding being drafting. And then the confusions and small joys and larger anxieties of entering into marriage with a stranger. As Dinesh and Ganga’s relationship slowly, sometimes excruciatingly unfolds, the search for human connection is deftly explored and exposed. Continue reading

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The Corrosiveness of Fake Harassment Stories

fakestoryYou might have seen this story going around social media, about a harassment incident ending up with her being handcuffed by University of Minnesota police.  Thinking about sharing it?  Don’t.  The University of Minnesota police answered questions about this supposed incident by saying they never responded to the incident described.

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‘Dr. Ken’ Episode Review: “Dave Goes on Shark Tank”

Dr. Ken, Season 2, Episode 07: “Dave Goes on Shark Tank”
Original airdate November 11, 2016.

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Dave is invited to appear on Shark Tank to pitch his new product, the Hot Legs Duvet.  Allison is thrilled for him, but Ken is wary once he gets a look at how harsh the TV Sharks can be.  Molly begins an internship at Welltopia, where Pat says he’d be happy to write her a letter of recommendation if she does well.  Things don’t work out quite as Molly expects when it becomes clear she and Pat have had a miscommunication.  One person at Welltopia is unhappy with Molly: Clark, who’s peeved that Molly didn’t “like” a photo he shared on Facebook.

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What’s the deal with computers on TV having those obscenely loud keyboards?  We’re not idiots; we know what a keyboard sounds like.  There’s really no need to amp up the clickety-clacketing.  That’s a small complaint, but one that should be pointed out in case anyone who makes these decisions is actually reading this.  Then again, I live in a bubble and might not know what keyboards in California sound like, because all I know is what’s around me on my small rock in the Pacific.  Perhaps I shouldn’t weigh in on this one.

My bigger complaint is the whole crossover thing in primetime television, which I categorically dislike even though I admit it kind of works in this episode.

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The gags in this episode are so stupid they’re funny, a line Dr. Ken seems to strive for but has trouble crossing more than once or twice per week.  Ken’s silliness works a lot better in the context of his family life than in his professional life, possibly because of the family dynamics.  And Clark’s juvenile grudge with Molly is good for more laughs than you’d expect.  I was laughing aloud even as I muttered “So stupid!” to myself.

More encouraging than gags that inspire actual laughter are plots that allow Dave and Molly out of the living room and into the real world.  Dave interacts with TV celebrities with an aplomb that’s believable because of good character development over the past year, and it’s nice to see Molly as a motivated young woman rather than just a daughter or big sister.  Of course the grownups at Welltopia respond well to her: she’s smart, inquisitive, and confident.

dr_ken_s02e07-6What I love most about this week’s stories is that there’s every reason to believe these kids have been reared by these parents.  If nothing else, Ken and Allison have raised their kids to use their heads and to be resilient.  I’m not dumb enough to expect real-world parents to take lessons from television characters, but it can’t hurt that Allison and Ken model a kind of parenting that encourages their children to take chances, to pursue interests, to be comfortable with themselves, and to be prepared for failure while not fleeing from it.

I’ve said this in my reviews of Fresh Off the Boat when Ken Jeong has guest-starred: he’s a generous and strong supporting actor, leaving all kinds of room for his fellow actors.  They succeed largely because he succeeds.

Props to the writers for trusting the actors and their own writing.  They let their well-developed central characters take supporting parts while Dave and Molly get the rare all-to-themselves episode.

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Maybe I’m just in the need for a laugh wherever I can get one, or maybe the writers found something different to tap into this week.  Whatever it is, it works, and I like it.  4 x-rays out of 5.

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Remembering Asian American Veterans: Drew Pham

I stumbled across Drew Pham’s story when posting a story on StoryCorps about my mother.  My father was a Navy veteran, and I was curious to hear other veteran’s stories.  This segment, which was played on NPR, talks about some of the incredibly difficult situations he had to go through when he was deployed as an Army Captain in Afghanistan.   Since the segment first aired in March 2014, I decided to see if anything else happened to him since then.  I found out that a lot more did happened and that he has a lot more interesting stories tell, such as how being Asian American played out in growing up, joining the Army, and even in provoking the Taliban’s response to him.

So what else happened to him?  For one thing, he got cancer.  In this story from Time, he says he is remission now (notably, after he received a bone marrow transplant).  More importantly and definitely more interestingly, he had his life story told in the form of this graphic story.  It goes over growing up Vietnamese American, and how media images made him think of being a good guy in the US military.  I’m not going to describe it all (it’s best experienced seeing it yourself), but some highlights are graffiti that the Taliban left specifically for him, the questions that he and other veterans hate to hear, and what makes him proudest of his experiences.  It will also make you think about the toll taken overseas and here at home by the wars fought for “America’s interests.”

If you thought that his story is interesting or want to preserve a veteran’s stories, consider StoryCorp’s Military Voices Initiative.  We have also written about the Library of Congress Veteran history project.  Another thing to learn from his story is the importance of bone marrow donations.   Drew Pham’s life was probably saved by one, but other Asian Americans have not been lucky enough to get a match.

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#SubmitToHate and “ThankYouDonald” on Instagram is documenting social media accounts of #WhiteLash

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I am just going to link to ThankYouDonald and let the posts speak for themselves.

The account description is:

Thank You, Donald. Bearing witness to the #WhiteLash. Contribute photos/screenshots by tagging them with #SubmitToHate. I wish this account didn’t need to exist.

I wish this account didn’t need to exist, either.

(Note: I am not the person who started that account)

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The 2016 US Election is over. What is your reaction?

8a-2016-11-2016electionI feel that this is a good time for us to revisit one of the original goals of 8Asians– to hear the diverse voices and opinions from our multifaceted communities of Asian Americans/Asian Canadians/Asian Australians/English speaking Asians from around the world.

Our writers used to regularly TalkAbout things, but we fell out of that habit.

So I ask you, do you have something to say to our community? What is your post-election reaction?

Let us know in the comments (be civil!), click the moodthingy below, message us privately, or submit a guest post.

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Asian American Commercial Watch / PSA: A message from the Cast of ‘Fresh Off the Boat’

I saw an email and Facebook posting from Asian and Pacific Islander Vote (APIAVote) about a new Public Service Announcement (PSA) video that was announced as ‘A message from the Cast of Fresh Off the Boat’:

“We just wanted to remind everyone to get out and vote on November 8th.”

Make voting a family affair—go out to eat afterwards! (Maybe at an affordable family steakhouse)

If only Cattleman’s Ranch were real.

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But Randall Park makes a good point—make a day out of voting! Voting impacts not just you, but your family too—and our collective futures.

So make it a family tradition. This Election Day, bring your kids, your parents, your friends—whoever is your family—with you to the polls to cast a vote. Starting this tradition ensures that our voices—and votes—can impact not just this election, but for elections to come.

Let’s #PowerUp the vote this year.

Make sure you’re ready to vote this year—have you made your plan to vote yet? Learn more here.

Be sure to share this video and continue the conversation online—and with your friends—with the hashtag #PowerUp. Be sure to tag @APIAVote and @RocktheVote when you do!

Tweet why you’re pledging to vote!

Pledge to vote

Learn about voting in your state

Have questions or need help voting?
Call 1-888-API-VOTE (1-888-274-8683).

One of the reasons I became so interested in politics is that lack of involvement and interest in politics by other Asian Americans, especially in California. Unfortunately, Asian Americans are one of the least likely groups to vote. If you’re a naturalized citizen, especially if you didn’t have the right to vote in your previous country, you should exercise your right AND responsibility to vote! Otherwise, why bother becoming a U.S. citizen?

I’m a big fan of APIAVote when I first learned about them at the 2012 Democratic National Convention (DNC), and also attended their 2016 DNC Briefing & Kickoff Reception. I really hope this PSA is broadcast and I hope to catch it on air!

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‘Dr. Ken’ Episode Review: “Ken Learns Korean”

Dr. Ken, Season 2, Episode 6: “Ken Learns Korean”
Original airdate November 4, 2016.

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Ken needs the assistance of a translator when he examines a Korean-speaking patient.  When he is also teased by D.K. and D.K.’s friends for not speaking Korean, he agrees to go with Dave to his Saturday Korean language class.  Clark is elected by the nurses’ union to negotiate the new contract with Welltopia’s board.  Molly, in preparation for her next shot at the SAT, practices her vocabulary in an ongoing showdown against Allison.

Hypertension.
Wow.  Everything and everyone are so over the top in this episode that Pat, as much himself as ever, seems normal here.  The dialogue is heavy-handed.  The acting is exaggerated.  The sentiment is overblown.  And I’ve never belonged to a union, so maybe I just don’t know what the protocols are, but Ken and Allison are employees of the HMO, and they are Clark’s friends; wouldn’t they have more to say to Clark than “We really don’t want you to strike?”

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The culture-themed episodes of Dr. Ken have consistently been my favorite, which I swear isn’t because I have a predilection for topic episodes.  I do prefer shows that attempt to say or do something different from what others have done, and since Dr. Ken is treading new ground just by existing, there’s a lot of unwalked territory just waiting to be explored.

“Ken Learns Korean” touches a lot of great ideas that ring true: the language thing, of course, but also older first-gen men playing cards, the expectation that Allison will play hostess, the alien-to-most environment of Dave’s weekend language classes, the consistent and constant stress of prepping for the SAT, the unique quality of Korean television, and (for just a little, deeply true moment) the daily disconnect when first-gen parents don’t quite understand all the words their later-gen progeny use at the table.  Despite all its noisy obnoxiousness, this is in some ways one of the truest episodes of the show’s run so far.

dr_ken_s02e06-16At the very end of the negotiation scene, which is kind of a clown show, Pat steers the moment to its closure with his usual weirdness, but on his way out the door, he turns, looks Clark closely in the eye, and says in a friendly, comparitively downtempo, I-got-the-better-of-you way, “Hey, this was fun,” adding a gentle shoulder-slap.  It’s the best acting in the episode, the rare moment where Dave Foley quarterbacks a whole scene with Tom-Brady-like dexterity.  Props to Jonathan Slavin for the assist.  Slavin can fill a room, but here he plays smaller while his character tries to play bigger, allowing Foley to work toward that great payoff line.  Super impressive.

Lab results.
If good intentions and good ideas were all that mattered, this might be one for the academy’s consideration.  However, it tries to use a chainsaw to carve something intricate.  It’s doable, but this one just doesn’t pull it off.  Two and a half prescription pads out of five.

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Donald Trump Is Seen as Helping Push Asian Americans Into Democratic Arms

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Rarely does the topic of Asian Americans and the U.S. presidential elections come up, but this is not a normal election. Specifically, Republican candidate Donald Trump is not your normal candidate.  The Times did a nice article outlining the growing political trends of Asian Americans to lean Democratic and that Trump is helping that trend:

“Republicans’ difficulties with Asian-Americans are similar to those the party has faced with most minority groups. A sense that the party is hostile to immigrants and minorities has driven more Asian-American voters into the Democratic Party lately, political scientists and community leaders said. And if Republicans do not make more of an effort, those voting shifts could harden, just as Hispanics’ voting patterns have.

“What we see now are some early indications that people who either leaned toward the Democratic Party or did not identify with either party are now starting to identify as Democrats,” said Karthick Ramakrishnan, a professor of political science at the University of California, Riverside. “This is still a group that is making up its mind,” he added, “but it should be concerning to the Republican Party that you’re starting to see this crystallization.””

Also, a recent Wall Street Journal article also indicated as to why Asian American voters could make the difference in key swing states like Virginia and Nevada:

“In Nevada and Virginia, two states where polls show the presidential race is down to single digits, the Asian-American population sits at 8.5% and 6.5% respectively—higher than the national average of 5.6%—and is climbing. That works out to hundreds of thousands of voters in states where the contest will be decided by thin margins and may help determine the next president.

On the national level, Hillary Clinton’s campaign employs a director of Asian-American and Pacific Islander outreach, who oversees field programs concentrated in Virginia and Pennsylvania, to which they are bussing Asian volunteers from nearby New York and New Jersey. The campaign has a separate staffer specifically directing such efforts in Nevada.”

This past September, Trump’s campaign did finally announce their Asian Pacific American Advisory Council:

“Donald J. Trump is pleased to announce his Asian Pacific American Advisory Committee. The women and men on the committee are elected, appointed and grassroots leaders who will engage Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders (AAPI) on relevant issues to these important and vibrant communities. Governors Eddie Calvo and Ralph Torres of Guam and Northern Mariana Islands (NMI) respectively, will serve as the Council’s Co-Chairs.”

However, Trump’s Asian Pacific American advisory committee only met the evening before the third presidential debate (3 weeks before the election), and Trump didn’t even show up:

“The meeting follows a survey released in early October that showed Trumptrailing Democratic nominee Hillary Clinton by 41 points among registered Asian-American voters. The meeting was also a day before the third and final presidential debate, also to be held in Las Vegas.”

That survey that is referred to is the National Asian American Survey, which released their report (81 pages that can be found here) on October 5th:

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The complete set of slides can be found here. What I find interesting is that foreign born Asian Americans tended to like Clinton more than native-born Asian Americans, and the opposite view for Trump – which is much more unfavorably by native-born Asian Americans than foreign born Asian Americans. Given Trump’s anti-illegal immigrant rhetoric, you would think foreign born Asian Americans would find Trump more unfavorable.

Then again, I have heard that there has also apparently been a relatively strong Chinese American grassroots group of supporters (usually foreign born Asian Americans):

“Like Zeng, an immigrant from China who lives in San Diego, many of Trump’s Chinese American supporters are relatively recent arrivals from mainland China with strong nationalistic leanings, a certain reverence for wealth and a firm belief that U.S. immigration laws should be followed.

Many say they have been politicized by recent battles over affirmative action on college campuses, where some Chinese Americans fear their numbers are being held down by efforts to advance other ethnic and racial groups. That issue, along with a recent controversy over the police shooting of an unarmed man by a Chinese American police officer in New York, has opened fissures in the Chinese American community between older, more progressive generations and newer, more conservative arrivals.”

I’ve been told have a few popular U.S.-based WeChat groups to discuss their support. Overall though, the data clearly shows that Asian Americans have been leaning strongly Democratic, and I will be surprised if Hillary Clinton doesn’t do better than Obama’s 71% of the Asian American vote.

In fact, Clinton has been a very strong supporter for Asian Americans and back on January 7th of this year, Democratic candidate Hillary Clinton launched her AAPI outreach efforts in San Gabriel:

and had hired back in August 2015 an AAPI Outreach Director. And in that speech, Clinton reminded the audience that her husband, President Bill Clinton, was the first to start the White House Initiative on Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders, back in 1999.

Even back in May (which seems like a lifetime ago), a survey was done, and Trump was overwhelmingly seen as unfavorable by Asian Americans:

“Only 19 percent of Asian Americans hold a favorable view of the presumptive Republican nominee, according to a survey of more than 1,000 registered Asian Americans conducted by three Asian-American NGOs, while 61 percent view him unfavorably.

That’s nearly the opposite of Hillary Clinton, who is viewed favorably by 62 percent of Asian Americans — one of the fastest-growing minority populations in the country — and unfavorably by 26 percent.”

So it’s no surprise that The Republican Party is concerned as to what Trump is doing to the their brand, and more importantly, how Asian Americans are voting – especially in key swing states of Nevada and Virginia. But at the time of this writing, Virginia looks to be a clear win for Clinton and Nevada is still borderline, but leaning Blue. I anticipate that Clinton will surpass Obama’s 71% of the Asian American electorate.

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‘Fresh off the Boat’ Episode Review: “Citizen Jessica”

Fresh Off the Boat, Season 3, Episode 4: “Citizen Jessica”
Original airdate November 1, 2016.

fotb_s03e03-50Microsynopsis:  Cattleman’s Ranch is serving as a polling place for the 1996 general election.  Jessica and Louis take opposing sides on a proposition to build a wall keeping illegal immigrants out of Florida, while Emery and Evan support opposing candidates in the Clinton-Dole presidential election.  In a move to get wall protestors removed from the premises, Jessica discovers that she is herself an illegal immigrant.  Eddie can’t be bothered with trivialities like presidential elections: he is too consumed with the recent murder of Tupac Shakur, while tensions with his friends over who killed him threaten their relationships.

Good:  I love the concept of using the elections of twenty years ago to make a statement about the elections today, and I love the table-turning on Jessica as she discovers she’s officially in the country illegally.   There’s a really funny argument at the lunch table with Eddie and his friends, and it’s funny how Grandma has an opinion about who killed Tupac.

fotb_s03e04-23Bad:  It’s really difficult to be genuinely funny when you spend so much time preaching, and this is a very preachy episode.  Louis preaches to Jessica about the importance of voting, and later he preaches to her about Hector’s difficult situation.  Grandma preaches to Eddie about keeping his friendships intact.  Evan preaches to Louis about the electoral college.  Emery even kind of preaches to a customer about the futility of voting for a third-party candidate.  And I get that Jessica is super competitive, but calling the INS on Louis’s cook is way over the line, even for her.  Ugh.

FOB moment:  “I’m a legal immigrant.  I did it the right way.  I went through the immigration process; I waited my turn.  I didn’t jump the line.  This is just about fairness.”  — Jessica, unaware that she’s actually in the country illegally.

Soundtrack flashback:  “Toss it Up” by Tupac (1996).

Final grade, this episode:  This is an uncharacteristically unfunny episode, a clever idea that doesn’t work because it smacks us over the head with its messages.   C-minus.

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8Books Review: “The Cambodian Dancer,” by Daryn Reicherter

cambodian_dancerThe Cambodian Dancer: Sophany’s Gift of Hope is a beautiful children’s picture book about a young Cambodian girl forced to leave her country who finds strength in traditional dance steps. The illustrations are well-done and in a style that matches the spirit of the book’s title character Sophany. Though not written by a Cambodian, it is based on the true story of a friend of the author.

As to be expected, the book only lightly touches on the cause of Sophany’s flight from her country — “The Khmer Rouge are bad” — while focusing more on the struggle to find one self and the reclaiming of culture and identity in her new home in America.

Beginning with Sophany learning dance in Cambodia before leaving the country as a child, the book ends on a lovely note of Sophany teaching other girls traditional Cambodian dance. It quickly covers her growth from child to adult, to then highlight the kind of inter-generational care she shows in establishing a Cambodian community in the United States.

The Cambodian Dancer was recently awarded the Moonbeam Children’s Book Awards Silver Medal for Non-Fiction Picture Book.

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Asian American Commercial Watch: Congressman Mike Honda’s Attack Ad: “Speed Dial” Against Ro Khanna

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Back in April, I had blogged that Ro Khanna was running  again (he first ran in 2014) against Congressman Mike Honda for California’s 17th Congressional District. Since then, I haven’t really been following that election except to see whether or not they both won and made it through the primary (since California has an open primary – the two top vote-getters make it to the general election – so it’s a Democrat vs. Democrat in November).

I was taken aback when I saw Honda’s attack ad against Khanna – probably a first where an Asian American Democrat is attacking another Asian American Democrat – only in California! Personally, I’m not sure how effective that attack ad is since Khanna is not exactly a household name and he isn’t a well know Silicon Valley tech mogul with ties to Wall Street, lobbyists or “extreme Republicans,” like a Peter Thiel. I think a label like “Wall $treet Ro” is kind of ridiculous, as the license plate on the limo in the commercial. Most people in Silicon Valley don’t have close ties to Wall Street, but do for tech.

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However, Khanna has accepted donations from Peter Thiel, whom I find an awful, horrible person, as I think most of Silicon Valley does after Thiel openly supported Donald Trump at the Republican National Convention and spoke there. If Honda’s campaign was smart, they’d be all over Thiel’s support instead of this attack ad. Personally, I’d have a hard time voting for anybody who doesn’t repudiate Thiel – everything I’ve read about him makes me sick.

What kind of cracked me up is that the actor who is playing Khanna in the attack ad kind of reminded me of actor Kal Penn (of Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle fame, currently on Designated Survivor).

I kind of have to agree, to a degree, this editorial in the local paper titled Mike Honda’s new ad diminishes him:

“On the merits of the issues, the ad is all wrong: Khanna wants to protect Social Security, scrapping the tax cap currently in place. He has written a book about American manufacturing and wants to create jobs in the United States as part of a plan to bring back money that companies hold abroad. He wants to close some of the more obvious tax loopholes for the rich. In a word, he is a progressive Democrat.

The Honda ad is really objectionable because it aims at a whole strata of people, suggesting that successful Indian-Americans are arrogant characters who want to do Wall Street’s bidding by outsourcing American jobs. Arrogance knows no race: And Honda should understand that.”

I didn’t necessarily see the attack ad as suggesting that Indian Americans are arrogant – just possibly Khanna.

What impressed a LOT recently was that former President Jimmy Carter had endorsed Khanna:

“Both candidates in the tight race to represent the 17th Congressional District announced key endorsements Monday, with Sen. Barbara Boxer backing incumbent U.S. Rep. Mike Honda and former President Jimmy Carter supporting challenger Ro Khanna. … Meanwhile, Carter called Fremont attorney Khanna one of “the next generation of leaders for our country.” He met Khanna at the Carter Center 20 years ago and was impressed with the young intern’s “passion for human rights and economics” and cited Khanna’s efforts since then, including his stint with the Commerce Department under the Obama Administration and his publication of a book on American economics.”

When I saw that endorsement, I was like – wow. I think a lot of Americans admire President Carter as our best ex-President with his post-Presidential humanitarian efforts. This kind of makes up for Khanna accepting a donation from Thiel.

Personally, I am not really for either candidate since I can’t vote for either of them – I don’t live in that Congressional district. As I have blogged before, I was kind of disappointed with Honda’s debate performance against Khanna in 2014. I have attended Honda fundraisers in the past, but more because I wanted to meet actor and activist George Takei and former Ambassador to China and Governor Gary Locke.

If I had to make a prediction, I think Khanna will prevail this time around. Honda is an eight-term incumbent.  With age discrimination being rampant in Silicon Valley, I hate to say this, but I think Honda has not kept up with his tech savvy constituents and issues in Silicon Valley as he should be (as opposed to Congresswoman Anna Eshoo, in neighboring 14th Congressional District – which I consider the heart of Silicon Valley – where Google and Facebook are headquartered, and similar in age as Honda). Honda has been a civic and civil rights leader for decades, but I think Khanna is probably someone more appropriate for that Congressional District.

 

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